"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sex outside a marriage to save the marriage!!!

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"My husband and I have always enjoyed a good debate and we ended the conversation by saying an affair was fine, but neither of us would ever want to know aboutit. He may have been joking,but deep down that’s what I’dwanted to hear and I took it as a tacit agreement between us."

so the guy should now realise he is married to a slut, she 'discussed' the possibility with him and went ahead with it, now she has her face emblazened on a national newspaper as if in celebration or confession?

what is there to save?

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/real-life-stories/im-happily-married-thanks-sex-1795503
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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some men feel they cant really prevent their wife from messing around so they pretend they are"open minded" and the wife knew that
 

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Agree with Evan, all this guys playing the "cool" guy who are fine with "experienced women" or in this case "open relationships" simply knows that they can do no better or are afraid to challenge the status quo therefore pretend that they are fine with that.

Just like when I hear police men on tv saying how police forces are more effective now that they are packed with women, I bet my hairy ass that most of them curse the day political correctness was born.
 

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its one thing to talk about it, she then appears to have acted upon the discussion without agreement from him, now she is advertising it to the whole nation...the world!
Im pretty sure there are many many more women leading such double lives, men as well, but now its out in the open ...to be celebrated, its all bets off!
 

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I swear, i'm the only guy out there who was ever asked what you do if your GF/wife/date cheat on you was kick her ass so hard she will be lost for months?

quick edit: I saw that picture, who the hell would willing want to bang that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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All men cheat when given the opportunity. Men do not have morals towards their s.o's and cannot pass up fresh vagina.
Feminism is now giving women the same opportunities. One of the side effects of feminism.
 

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rearea said:
All men cheat when given the opportunity. Men do not have morals towards their s.o's and cannot pass up fresh vagina.
Feminism is now giving women the same opportunities. One of the side effects of feminism.
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I find you saying this on sosuave incredibly fascinating. Not too many posters, even vets here, promote being loyal to your significant other. You might be right.
 

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rearea said:
All men cheat when given the opportunity. Men do not have morals towards their s.o's and cannot pass up fresh vagina.
Feminism is now giving women the same opportunities. One of the side effects of feminism.
and women do have said morals?
 

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and women do have said morals?
90% of the married women I know are loyal to their husbands despite their husband's bull****, drama, arrogance and selfish bratty ways. Most of their husbands however have made passes at me behind their backs. There are some women out there with ****ty morals. However, there are no men that exist that have morals when it comes to sex. Men were put on this earth to have sex with a bunch of women. They dont care about anything else they are slaves to their ****s.
 

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rearea said:
90% of the married women I know are loyal to their husbands despite their husband's bull****, drama, arrogance and selfish bratty ways. Most of their husbands however have made passes at me behind their backs. There are some women out there with ****ty morals. However, there are no men that exist that have morals when it comes to sex. Men were put on this earth to have sex with a bunch of women. They dont care about anything else they are slaves to their ****s.
you dont appear remotely bitter...or residing in the real world
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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betheman said:
you dont appear remotely bitter...or residing in the real world

I do reside in the real world. Difference is Im not brainwashed like most women in this male-dominated world and I dont live in denial like 99% of women.
 

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rearea said:
I do reside in the real world. Difference is Im not brainwashed like most women in this male-dominated world and I dont live in denial like 99% of women.
amd your reason for being on this site is exactly what sweetheart?
 

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I certainly don't bang every cute chick that I meet, and on trips to Phills, you'd better believe that I could score PLENTY. I have a very fine wife, and it would take a "major upheaval" sort of occurance to make me consider losing my "other half", much less just for a ONS sort of thing. If that's not true for you, you probably shouldn't have an SO. You aint ready for one yet.
 

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rearea said:
All men cheat when given the opportunity. Men do not have morals towards their s.o's and cannot pass up fresh vagina.
Feminism is now giving women the same opportunities. One of the side effects of feminism.
Yep but usually men dont come back home with a bastard son and get mad when the wife doesnt want to have anything to do with any of them.

Also men dont usually trick women into feeding their bastard child and call the big bullies of the government when they cannot do it by themselves.

You still think as if men and women were equal, a worm is still a worm yet it means something when it is inside an apple and something completely different when its in the bottom of a tequila bottle.
 

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rearea said:
All men cheat when given the opportunity. Men do not have morals towards their s.o's and cannot pass up fresh vagina.
Feminism is now giving women the same opportunities. One of the side effects of feminism.

and you don't even look, not even a little, bitter about it.

what I see here is a bitter woman who was cheated on, and can't get over it and then come to internet fishing for someone pity, try facebook, lots of people give the kind of atencion you seek on the way you want, hell maybe you can even find a poor soul to suck his life, because he always liked you.... or you are trolling since it april's fools and all.

I could keep going and said about honor and morals, but womans can't grasp the concept so I leave like this
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Big deal...

Some people have open relationships...A good friend of mine and his wife have such an arrangement... and they are quite happy. Does not mean she is out ****ing everything that moves.

And from what I have seen women cheat a lot more than men... men look for love (they'll never find it), women look for the next best thing (that rich doctor) .
 

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Agreeing with Half Addict here, after reading the article.

This isn't a big deal, I kinda felt good for her, and the guys she happily served.

:)
 

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Burroughs where are you man , we have a feminist man hater here , she is all your ;)
 

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Dear Rerea,
I agree with most of your Post....It is largely a question of Svex drive,not morals...Men have evolved or been created with a much higher Libido than Women..This had a survival value,that gave genetic advantage...That same survival value makes unfulfilled needs irresistable and so human nature will in the right circumstances take over...So Men in relationships,will tend to stray more than Women...Men in most Relationships feel varying levels of Svexual deprivation,but only something like 7% of Women....These unmet needs make people vulnerable...Of course the more unscrupulous DJ will learn to pick these Women out of a crowd,and act accordingly..."It's only human nature after all"LOL.
 

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rearea said:
All men cheat when given the opportunity. Men do not have morals towards their s.o's and cannot pass up fresh vagina.
Feminism is now giving women the same opportunities. One of the side effects of feminism.
I smell a bitter pump and dumpee not self aware enough to realise feminism created her predicament. You poor b1tch. Another casualty with nothing but the cold eyes of her cats to look forward to. Sad thing is if the lightbulb ever does switch on she'll be too old and uncaring to forewarn her younger sisters.

Around and around we go.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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