"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sex not love?

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Myrrdin

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Hey guys,

I'm in a bit of a dilemma. The thing is I loved my last girlfriend and the sex was good. The sex had meaning, for me at least. It wasn't just about boning her. So now I kinda feel reluctant to have sex with other girls unless we're involved in a relationship and love each other.

I've had 2 LTR and never had a ONS.

Advice?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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terran2k

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the first thing that came to my head was "stop being such a woman"; I just get from your post that you're one of those super emotional guys.
 
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Myrrdin

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Indeed I am. Sadly. Read the thread about my break up and you'll understand. I'm deep into the hole of AFCness and trying to recover until it's too late. These questions might seem worthy of a bad romance movie, but sorry, I am trying to figure stuff out one step at a time. It's a long and rocky road, but I'm willing to go all the way. Any advice is more then welcome and please don't flame.
 
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Myrrdin

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fvck it :D. No more whining. No more dreams of purity and love. It's time to live. Leave philosophy for others.
 
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