"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sex not love?

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Myrrdin

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Hey guys,

I'm in a bit of a dilemma. The thing is I loved my last girlfriend and the sex was good. The sex had meaning, for me at least. It wasn't just about boning her. So now I kinda feel reluctant to have sex with other girls unless we're involved in a relationship and love each other.

I've had 2 LTR and never had a ONS.

Advice?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the first thing that came to my head was "stop being such a woman"; I just get from your post that you're one of those super emotional guys.
 
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Indeed I am. Sadly. Read the thread about my break up and you'll understand. I'm deep into the hole of AFCness and trying to recover until it's too late. These questions might seem worthy of a bad romance movie, but sorry, I am trying to figure stuff out one step at a time. It's a long and rocky road, but I'm willing to go all the way. Any advice is more then welcome and please don't flame.
 
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fvck it :D. No more whining. No more dreams of purity and love. It's time to live. Leave philosophy for others.
 
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