"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sex not love?

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Myrrdin

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Hey guys,

I'm in a bit of a dilemma. The thing is I loved my last girlfriend and the sex was good. The sex had meaning, for me at least. It wasn't just about boning her. So now I kinda feel reluctant to have sex with other girls unless we're involved in a relationship and love each other.

I've had 2 LTR and never had a ONS.

Advice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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terran2k

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the first thing that came to my head was "stop being such a woman"; I just get from your post that you're one of those super emotional guys.
 
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Myrrdin

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Indeed I am. Sadly. Read the thread about my break up and you'll understand. I'm deep into the hole of AFCness and trying to recover until it's too late. These questions might seem worthy of a bad romance movie, but sorry, I am trying to figure stuff out one step at a time. It's a long and rocky road, but I'm willing to go all the way. Any advice is more then welcome and please don't flame.
 
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fvck it :D. No more whining. No more dreams of purity and love. It's time to live. Leave philosophy for others.
 
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