Sex not love?

[Myrrdin]

Hey guys,

I'm in a bit of a dilemma. The thing is I loved my last girlfriend and the sex was good. The sex had meaning, for me at least. It wasn't just about boning her. So now I kinda feel reluctant to have sex with other girls unless we're involved in a relationship and love each other.

I've had 2 LTR and never had a ONS.

Advice?

 

[terran2k]

the first thing that came to my head was "stop being such a woman"; I just get from your post that you're one of those super emotional guys.

 

[Myrrdin]

Indeed I am. Sadly. Read the thread about my break up and you'll understand. I'm deep into the hole of AFCness and trying to recover until it's too late. These questions might seem worthy of a bad romance movie, but sorry, I am trying to figure stuff out one step at a time. It's a long and rocky road, but I'm willing to go all the way. Any advice is more then welcome and please don't flame.

 

[Myrrdin]

fvck it . No more whining. No more dreams of purity and love. It's time to live. Leave philosophy for others.