Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Sex not for me ?

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Sup fellas,

I have a very low sex drive, I've been so used to my hand that sex just dosen't satisfy me that much... it's starting to put a strain on my relationship as my gf likes to f*ck ALL THE TIME. I'm still amazed at how much girls want sex...

I just don't find anything much appealing about sex, yeah its cool but the same result... cvm comes out right ?? Seems alot of effort and sweat when I can justhandle it in 10 minutes or less.. I'm not being selfish, I'd love to have a great big drive and f*ck my girl 8x's a day but my heart and mind isn't into it. She turns me on and everything, but dunno just not that much into it...

What do you think I can do ?? I do have HUGE motivation to masturbate tho and sometimes can get it off 4 or 5x's a day... usually not more than 3x's in a week tho... Should I stop ?? Am I just a normal guy or is there something wrong with me ?? I want to cvm, just not from sex so much and her felacio is really good but just dosen't make me cvm like my hand... she's gotta work it for like an hour for me to cvm... and i've never cvm during sex with her, after a while I lose desire and get tired...she's satisfied but i need to go beat afterwards...w ats the deal ???

The only way I can cvm inside her is to start to beat... get to the point of cumming and then insert in her for the last 5 or 10 minutes (this is after beating her for over 45 minutes)

Someone help if you have this problem or share some insight? ? Right now all I know how to do is to stop beating off... but I love it... I always have gotten sexual attention from females but my desire for the ACT of sex is just ehhhh, i'm not a loser... good looking, good looking girl... good attention... job, school, i'm busy... just no love for sex... i like my hand... help me


-Cod3r
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stop masturbating. Completely.

Then, the only way you'll be able to *** is thru sex. You'll like it more when its your only avenue. Try it.

Also, maybe you should try different positions/techniques. Let her give you head for awhile, until you get closer to cumming. If your girl is strong enough, let her get on top and pump it that way. Try to get in on different angles so its tighter.

If something isn't working for you, then try something else. The same thing will never get any better.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Stop masturbating. Completely.

Then, the only way you'll be able to *** is thru sex. You'll like it more when its your only avenue. Try it.

Also, maybe you should try different positions/techniques. Let her give you head for awhile, until you get closer to cumming. If your girl is strong enough, let her get on top and pump it that way. Try to get in on different angles so its tighter.

If something isn't working for you, then try something else. The same thing will never get any better.
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My thoughts exactly, I'm just going to quit masturbating. Also the different positions might be key, I've only hit it from the back... tried with her on top (her fav. position) but my **** is too big and curves in a way that is painful as hell to me... Any suggestions for new positions ??

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Also, she usually gets REALLY wet when we have sex... and has to because my **** is pretty large and her pvssy pretty small in comparison (she's azn) and it causes a lot of slipperyness... I mean she gushes liquid... u think to maybe go inside her with some lube when she's not turned on... so it can be nice and snug ?? I tried when she was mildy wet btw and it was like trying to get inside a brick wall... juss wouldn't happen... can't seem to find a medium between getting in at all... and her getting too wet ?? Tks again for the help


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i haven't had sex since 2003. the closest i got was a few months ago, fingering my ex and almost getting my johnson in her but her underwear was on and her mom was in the next room... and she was a virgin anyway. i don't get laid cause i don't pick up. but that's just me. luckily i get lucky and girls approach me but another reason is that i am very picky on looks. so you can imagine why i don't get laid much.
 
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^ ^ And that answers my questions how ?? No disrespect but umm yeah ?


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yeah, sorry about that... i think you are trying too hard maybe ? sex shouldn't be just sex... get it in her and bang bang bang. make it exciting and fun. change it around a bit so you'll want to have sex again the next time. although the hand thing is not too bad either... you get to do it with anyone you want... well, in your head or whatever picture you're looking at. mmm, britney spears (when she was young)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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