"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sex not for me ?

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Sup fellas,

I have a very low sex drive, I've been so used to my hand that sex just dosen't satisfy me that much... it's starting to put a strain on my relationship as my gf likes to f*ck ALL THE TIME. I'm still amazed at how much girls want sex...

I just don't find anything much appealing about sex, yeah its cool but the same result... cvm comes out right ?? Seems alot of effort and sweat when I can justhandle it in 10 minutes or less.. I'm not being selfish, I'd love to have a great big drive and f*ck my girl 8x's a day but my heart and mind isn't into it. She turns me on and everything, but dunno just not that much into it...

What do you think I can do ?? I do have HUGE motivation to masturbate tho and sometimes can get it off 4 or 5x's a day... usually not more than 3x's in a week tho... Should I stop ?? Am I just a normal guy or is there something wrong with me ?? I want to cvm, just not from sex so much and her felacio is really good but just dosen't make me cvm like my hand... she's gotta work it for like an hour for me to cvm... and i've never cvm during sex with her, after a while I lose desire and get tired...she's satisfied but i need to go beat afterwards...w ats the deal ???

The only way I can cvm inside her is to start to beat... get to the point of cumming and then insert in her for the last 5 or 10 minutes (this is after beating her for over 45 minutes)

Someone help if you have this problem or share some insight? ? Right now all I know how to do is to stop beating off... but I love it... I always have gotten sexual attention from females but my desire for the ACT of sex is just ehhhh, i'm not a loser... good looking, good looking girl... good attention... job, school, i'm busy... just no love for sex... i like my hand... help me


-Cod3r
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stop masturbating. Completely.

Then, the only way you'll be able to *** is thru sex. You'll like it more when its your only avenue. Try it.

Also, maybe you should try different positions/techniques. Let her give you head for awhile, until you get closer to cumming. If your girl is strong enough, let her get on top and pump it that way. Try to get in on different angles so its tighter.

If something isn't working for you, then try something else. The same thing will never get any better.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stop masturbating. Completely.

Then, the only way you'll be able to *** is thru sex. You'll like it more when its your only avenue. Try it.

Also, maybe you should try different positions/techniques. Let her give you head for awhile, until you get closer to cumming. If your girl is strong enough, let her get on top and pump it that way. Try to get in on different angles so its tighter.

If something isn't working for you, then try something else. The same thing will never get any better.
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My thoughts exactly, I'm just going to quit masturbating. Also the different positions might be key, I've only hit it from the back... tried with her on top (her fav. position) but my **** is too big and curves in a way that is painful as hell to me... Any suggestions for new positions ??

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Also, she usually gets REALLY wet when we have sex... and has to because my **** is pretty large and her pvssy pretty small in comparison (she's azn) and it causes a lot of slipperyness... I mean she gushes liquid... u think to maybe go inside her with some lube when she's not turned on... so it can be nice and snug ?? I tried when she was mildy wet btw and it was like trying to get inside a brick wall... juss wouldn't happen... can't seem to find a medium between getting in at all... and her getting too wet ?? Tks again for the help


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i haven't had sex since 2003. the closest i got was a few months ago, fingering my ex and almost getting my johnson in her but her underwear was on and her mom was in the next room... and she was a virgin anyway. i don't get laid cause i don't pick up. but that's just me. luckily i get lucky and girls approach me but another reason is that i am very picky on looks. so you can imagine why i don't get laid much.
 
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^ ^ And that answers my questions how ?? No disrespect but umm yeah ?


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yeah, sorry about that... i think you are trying too hard maybe ? sex shouldn't be just sex... get it in her and bang bang bang. make it exciting and fun. change it around a bit so you'll want to have sex again the next time. although the hand thing is not too bad either... you get to do it with anyone you want... well, in your head or whatever picture you're looking at. mmm, britney spears (when she was young)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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