"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sex not for me ?

Cod3r

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Sup fellas,

I have a very low sex drive, I've been so used to my hand that sex just dosen't satisfy me that much... it's starting to put a strain on my relationship as my gf likes to f*ck ALL THE TIME. I'm still amazed at how much girls want sex...

I just don't find anything much appealing about sex, yeah its cool but the same result... cvm comes out right ?? Seems alot of effort and sweat when I can justhandle it in 10 minutes or less.. I'm not being selfish, I'd love to have a great big drive and f*ck my girl 8x's a day but my heart and mind isn't into it. She turns me on and everything, but dunno just not that much into it...

What do you think I can do ?? I do have HUGE motivation to masturbate tho and sometimes can get it off 4 or 5x's a day... usually not more than 3x's in a week tho... Should I stop ?? Am I just a normal guy or is there something wrong with me ?? I want to cvm, just not from sex so much and her felacio is really good but just dosen't make me cvm like my hand... she's gotta work it for like an hour for me to cvm... and i've never cvm during sex with her, after a while I lose desire and get tired...she's satisfied but i need to go beat afterwards...w ats the deal ???

The only way I can cvm inside her is to start to beat... get to the point of cumming and then insert in her for the last 5 or 10 minutes (this is after beating her for over 45 minutes)

Someone help if you have this problem or share some insight? ? Right now all I know how to do is to stop beating off... but I love it... I always have gotten sexual attention from females but my desire for the ACT of sex is just ehhhh, i'm not a loser... good looking, good looking girl... good attention... job, school, i'm busy... just no love for sex... i like my hand... help me


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ace of Flames

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Stop masturbating. Completely.

Then, the only way you'll be able to *** is thru sex. You'll like it more when its your only avenue. Try it.

Also, maybe you should try different positions/techniques. Let her give you head for awhile, until you get closer to cumming. If your girl is strong enough, let her get on top and pump it that way. Try to get in on different angles so its tighter.

If something isn't working for you, then try something else. The same thing will never get any better.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cod3r

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Stop masturbating. Completely.

Then, the only way you'll be able to *** is thru sex. You'll like it more when its your only avenue. Try it.

Also, maybe you should try different positions/techniques. Let her give you head for awhile, until you get closer to cumming. If your girl is strong enough, let her get on top and pump it that way. Try to get in on different angles so its tighter.

If something isn't working for you, then try something else. The same thing will never get any better.
My thoughts exactly, I'm just going to quit masturbating. Also the different positions might be key, I've only hit it from the back... tried with her on top (her fav. position) but my **** is too big and curves in a way that is painful as hell to me... Any suggestions for new positions ??

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Also, she usually gets REALLY wet when we have sex... and has to because my **** is pretty large and her pvssy pretty small in comparison (she's azn) and it causes a lot of slipperyness... I mean she gushes liquid... u think to maybe go inside her with some lube when she's not turned on... so it can be nice and snug ?? I tried when she was mildy wet btw and it was like trying to get inside a brick wall... juss wouldn't happen... can't seem to find a medium between getting in at all... and her getting too wet ?? Tks again for the help


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i haven't had sex since 2003. the closest i got was a few months ago, fingering my ex and almost getting my johnson in her but her underwear was on and her mom was in the next room... and she was a virgin anyway. i don't get laid cause i don't pick up. but that's just me. luckily i get lucky and girls approach me but another reason is that i am very picky on looks. so you can imagine why i don't get laid much.
 

Cod3r

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^ ^ And that answers my questions how ?? No disrespect but umm yeah ?


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bingo_

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yeah, sorry about that... i think you are trying too hard maybe ? sex shouldn't be just sex... get it in her and bang bang bang. make it exciting and fun. change it around a bit so you'll want to have sex again the next time. although the hand thing is not too bad either... you get to do it with anyone you want... well, in your head or whatever picture you're looking at. mmm, britney spears (when she was young)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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