"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Sex - No Joke
- Thread starter Jester
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
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Just ask your girlfriends father for a couple.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Ill just borrow some from your mum when i see her tonight...
Dr had a legimate question and you had no right to ridicule him.
Now i gotta say tho dude, if you have to ask where to buy condoms you really shouldnt be having sex anyway...
Your local drug store or wal-mart is always a convient place though.
Jester forgot to mention that besides latex and lambskin condomse there is a different kind I heard about... Something along PVC materials being used to create these ultra-sensitive condoms for all those folks allergic or just plain annoyed by latex. Check askmen.com's Sex section, it might still be there.
Also, investigate different types of condoms (ribbed, extra-safe, etc.) because they might bring a whole new punch to your performance/feeling.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mikelo2k
Senior Don Juan
And that one website that was posted in this thread as 'reference' seemed to 'put down' sex and tell people not to have it. 'Abstinence is the way to go' FVCK THAT! If everyone followed that then the human race would become extinct. Remember, sex and pregnancy is natural, it is not a 'disease', so if you are not ready to have a kid then either stick to BJ, **** up the ass, or dont have sex until you get things sorted out.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Da-OnlyX
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Bump for everyone.
ShizamDaMan
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Know your stuff gentlemen. As said before, don't trust a girl with her birth control. If you use your condom correctly your chances of getting her pregnant are very very slim. Do you really want a girl incontrol of something that could probably ruin both your lives? NO!!!!
Superman X
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Morning after pills are not available over the counter at your local drugstore. As a matter of fact, I couldn't even get them by prescription for this girl who I didn't use a condom with (there were reasons for it, but yeah, it was still stupid). Planned Parenthood told me to go to the Hospital, who told me to go to a walk-in clinic, who in turn told me to go to Planned Parenthood again. By the time you deal with all the BS necessary to get a morning after pill, 72 hours has already passed. Now I just gotta hope and pray she doesn't get pregnant.
-Dan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.