"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sex - No Joke
- Thread starter Jester
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
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Just ask your girlfriends father for a couple.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
Ill just borrow some from your mum when i see her tonight...
Dr had a legimate question and you had no right to ridicule him.
Now i gotta say tho dude, if you have to ask where to buy condoms you really shouldnt be having sex anyway...
Your local drug store or wal-mart is always a convient place though.
Jester forgot to mention that besides latex and lambskin condomse there is a different kind I heard about... Something along PVC materials being used to create these ultra-sensitive condoms for all those folks allergic or just plain annoyed by latex. Check askmen.com's Sex section, it might still be there.
Also, investigate different types of condoms (ribbed, extra-safe, etc.) because they might bring a whole new punch to your performance/feeling.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mikelo2k
Senior Don Juan
And that one website that was posted in this thread as 'reference' seemed to 'put down' sex and tell people not to have it. 'Abstinence is the way to go' FVCK THAT! If everyone followed that then the human race would become extinct. Remember, sex and pregnancy is natural, it is not a 'disease', so if you are not ready to have a kid then either stick to BJ, **** up the ass, or dont have sex until you get things sorted out.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Da-OnlyX
Don Juan
Bump for everyone.
ShizamDaMan
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Know your stuff gentlemen. As said before, don't trust a girl with her birth control. If you use your condom correctly your chances of getting her pregnant are very very slim. Do you really want a girl incontrol of something that could probably ruin both your lives? NO!!!!
Superman X
Banned
Morning after pills are not available over the counter at your local drugstore. As a matter of fact, I couldn't even get them by prescription for this girl who I didn't use a condom with (there were reasons for it, but yeah, it was still stupid). Planned Parenthood told me to go to the Hospital, who told me to go to a walk-in clinic, who in turn told me to go to Planned Parenthood again. By the time you deal with all the BS necessary to get a morning after pill, 72 hours has already passed. Now I just gotta hope and pray she doesn't get pregnant.
-Dan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.