Sex issues

[RickHunt]

Hi. Don't know if this is the right place to post this? But hey.
When I engage in intimate physical contact with a girl (hugging or rubbing up against her) I get an erection easily. When I start getting closer to having sex, my boner subsides. I can be fingering her and rubbing her breasts but just cant get a boner at the time when I really need one. She can be jerking me off and I'm still flaccid (pretty embarrassing). As I mentioned, when the clothes are on I have no issue. Any tips or ways around this annoying problem? Is it that I need to get more comfortable with the girl first? Thanks.

 

[Dgwizdal]

c0ck pills from the gas station. Just your nerves - these wont fail you.

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

Get your testosterone levels checked out by a doctor.
Might be low T

 

[JohnChops]

its not low ****ing T, im 20 years old and this happened with my current GF. couldnt get hard. it was a mind game, its because you are nervous! just relax, your test is fine.

 

[trent_afc]

Yep. I've had this issue when I was nervous/anxious with a new girl. When your clothes are on there is no expectation for you to perform (hence less anxiety). If you try to force yourself to get an erection on demand, it may backfire.

Next time, just try to keep yourself mentally calm & relaxed during foreplay. Just try to enjoy it without pressuring yourself (difficult I know). Do what you have to do to keep your hard on; whether its her or you doing the stroking, and/or taking your time. As soon as she's wet enough and you're at least hard enough to stick it in without folding, do so, and the sensation will keep you going. After you get comfortable with the girl then it won't be a problem. Good luck

 

[Mike32ct]

Strip down to your boxers and grind with her hard, right against her bare puss or panty covered puss.

Then when you get a boner, drop the boxers, grab the condom, and go.

 

[VikingKing]

Stop fapping. Porn fvcks ur brain up in the same way drugs, alcohol, or a bdp does.

Its in your head. for some reason you are getting to nervous. Find the source of the problem and eliminate it.

 

[Dgwizdal]

c0ck pills from the gas station. Just your nerves - these wont fail you.

Again - Do not hesitate to get libido/ d!ck pills. Also have her dirty talk and you c0ck will be rock hard. Stop beating off too

 

[lanba]

Stop fapping. Porn fvcks ur brain up in the same way drugs, alcohol, or a bdp does.

Its in your head. for some reason you are getting to nervous. Find the source of the problem and eliminate it.

bdp = Big **** Pelican?

 

[RagingBalls]

Bang her with your clothes on

just unzip your pants and attack the poon. Case solved

 

[VladPatton]

Do a reboot, man. Eliminate any sexual stimulus from your routine. No porn, no fap for let's say 5-7 days before you see her and you get nasty. It should work then. You'll be pretty charged up and ready to stick her good. Other than that, it is some psychological issue you need to address.

 

[Bible_Belt]

http://www.purity-solutions.net/sildenafil.html

 

[JohnChops]

all those porn is bad for you crap are for the guys who jerk it 10 times a day. doing it once or twice a week will have no ill effect on your sexual experience.
its not a silver bullet.

 

[Jair213]

Stop fapping. Porn fvcks ur brain up in the same way drugs, alcohol, or a bdp does.

Its in your head. for some reason you are getting to nervous. Find the source of the problem and eliminate it.

listen to him

stop porn and fapping

men back in the days fVcked they didnt fapped as much or watch porn

 

[PeasantPlayer]

They fapped probably just as much, just not with porn. And on the topic I keep relapse...I am addicted to sex I have to find a way. I will start on saturday morning

 

[skinnyguy]

They fapped probably just as much, just not with porn. And on the topic I keep relapse...I am addicted to sex I have to find a way. I will start on saturday morning

I relapsed too…no fap is so fvcking hard...

 

[LeonSK]

Agree with most people above, stop watching porn! Masturbation is fine and actually it helps keep you sexual drive good/strong if not overdone.

 

[lil hooligan]

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What the hell is that stuff?

 

[sylvester the cat]

this happened to me only once (when sober anyway).

I have no idea why. the girl i was trying to poke was smoking hot. 18, huge baps, nice as$. every time we went to do the deed it just would not perform.

to this day i do not know why this happened.

 

[JohnChops]

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What the hell is that stuff?

it is a prescription drug. research companies can sell it to anyone WITHOUT a prescription as long as they write "not for human consumption" so that if you fvck yourself up it is on you not them.