"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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drummer

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So I lost my virginity to this girl a month or two ago. It didn't go the greatest, mostly cause I had lots of trouble getting hard... and I'm just 16. Now the issue is a little different though. I seriously just can not get it in her vagina. I'll try a few times and even if I finally do I last no time at all. Luckily for her I am good at fingering cause I just suck with sex. Anyone know anything that could help me out?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lube to get in. Staying power is a different issue. Try thinking of the least sexy thing in the world: your mom, dead puppies, school tomorrow, or whatever turns you off the most.
 

drummer

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Well the condoms I am using are already lubed and slippery as hell.

And no I haven't gotten her to give me a BJ before, would that just help me last longer?

I think part of the problem of getrting in is that my **** isn't really all the hard.. like its up but not rock solid...
 

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Hmmm, see now there may be the problem.

Maybe have her give you some HJ and BJ action for a while to harden things up.

If that doesn't work I would chalk it up to performance anxiety and if you do a search on that here I believe many posters have offered great advice of how to get through it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ok thanks, I thought that performance stress might be it but just wanted to get a seconf opinion from those who oknow a bit more about the subject...
 
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