Sex Help

[drummer]

So I lost my virginity to this girl a month or two ago. It didn't go the greatest, mostly cause I had lots of trouble getting hard... and I'm just 16. Now the issue is a little different though. I seriously just can not get it in her vagina. I'll try a few times and even if I finally do I last no time at all. Luckily for her I am good at fingering cause I just suck with sex. Anyone know anything that could help me out?

 

[KontrollerX]

You have her give you a BJ?

 

[Bible_Belt]

Lube to get in. Staying power is a different issue. Try thinking of the least sexy thing in the world: your mom, dead puppies, school tomorrow, or whatever turns you off the most.

 

[drummer]

Well the condoms I am using are already lubed and slippery as hell.

And no I haven't gotten her to give me a BJ before, would that just help me last longer?

I think part of the problem of getrting in is that my **** isn't really all the hard.. like its up but not rock solid...

 

[KontrollerX]

Hmmm, see now there may be the problem.

Maybe have her give you some HJ and BJ action for a while to harden things up.

If that doesn't work I would chalk it up to performance anxiety and if you do a search on that here I believe many posters have offered great advice of how to get through it.

 

[drummer]

Ok thanks, I thought that performance stress might be it but just wanted to get a seconf opinion from those who oknow a bit more about the subject...