"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SEX first time?

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oookkk so I posted awhile ago and I was def. gonna get laid, and it just so happened that I had to get busted for drinking 1 week before, so i was grounded as hell.

Well, here we go again. My gf has the house to herself friday and I'm cumin over :D it's not even a mystery why I'm going there, she has plenty of condoms and she's on bc so we're set there.

However, what she doesn't know is that this is going to be my first time :eek: I have fooled around plenty w/girls, but I wasn't sure i wanted to do it until now.

I've been reading stuff on this site and others, and I'm thinking, I'm naturally good at basically everything else, so should I just stop thinking and go for it or what? Should I let my natural male instincts kick in here or what?

If anyone has any decent first-time tips, they would be greatly appreciated. thanks kids
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by kev me723
oookkk so I posted awhile ago and I was def. gonna get laid, and it just so happened that I had to get busted for drinking 1 week before, so i was grounded as hell.

Well, here we go again. My gf has the house to herself friday and I'm cumin over :D it's not even a mystery why I'm going there, she has plenty of condoms and she's on bc so we're set there.

However, what she doesn't know is that this is going to be my first time :eek: I have fooled around plenty w/girls, but I wasn't sure i wanted to do it until now.

I've been reading stuff on this site and others, and I'm thinking, I'm naturally good at basically everything else, so should I just stop thinking and go for it or what? Should I let my natural male instincts kick in here or what?

If anyone has any decent first-time tips, they would be greatly appreciated. thanks kids
Yeah, I let myself loose the first time. Sex is mainly about positions. So switch it up often. Once you have more sex, then you can seek advanced techniques.

Your set for now.

Go missionary -> pick up her legs --> bring em close together --> flip her over --> turn her over --> etc

And, make sure you're continuously fvcking -- smooth motions.
 

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I made a first-time guide to having sex... do a search in the HS forum for it, it's about 2-3 months old.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just make sure you know how to put on a condom. Do a search on google or something. The worst thing you want to happen is having your rubber break and you *** inside thinking that your condom was good to go.

Other than that, have fun and............don't bust too early...hehe



Let us know how it goes.
 

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DON'T drink a little, as a previous poster suggested. Drinking makes it more difficult to uh...get it up.
 

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kev, do you realize what is going on?







Ain't nobody in the house but you two. Your going to get your F^&%ing @$$ laid.......You big PimP.


Keep it fresh and clean. Wash it up and most importantly wrap it.
 

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Originally posted by whyshy
kev, do you realize what is going on?







Ain't nobody in the house but you two. Your going to get your F^&%ing @$$ laid.......You big PimP.


Keep it fresh and clean. Wash it up and most importantly wrap it.
That too, but I hope that was obvious.
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
I made a first-time guide to having sex... do a search in the HS forum for it, it's about 2-3 months old.
What was the title of it? Can u link?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yeeaahh i am getting laid haha. If it wasn't a given before then there you go, cuz we talked about it (with a little subtlety of course) but that's why I'm going there, she even told me she got a bunch of diff. kinds of condoms from her friend for x-mas ha!

anyway, i think i am going to eat her out first. I have talked to some of the best men i know with woman (one older guy i work with in summer has had sex with 500+ women in his life, no bs I've seen him in action) and they all do it. Plus I kinda want to since I never have heh. Any opinions/advice on that?

Otherwise I'm pretty sure I'm jus gonna let it flow, cuz i think i'll be ok if I don't think about it too much.
 
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