"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oookkk so I posted awhile ago and I was def. gonna get laid, and it just so happened that I had to get busted for drinking 1 week before, so i was grounded as hell.

Well, here we go again. My gf has the house to herself friday and I'm cumin over :D it's not even a mystery why I'm going there, she has plenty of condoms and she's on bc so we're set there.

However, what she doesn't know is that this is going to be my first time :eek: I have fooled around plenty w/girls, but I wasn't sure i wanted to do it until now.

I've been reading stuff on this site and others, and I'm thinking, I'm naturally good at basically everything else, so should I just stop thinking and go for it or what? Should I let my natural male instincts kick in here or what?

If anyone has any decent first-time tips, they would be greatly appreciated. thanks kids
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by kev me723
oookkk so I posted awhile ago and I was def. gonna get laid, and it just so happened that I had to get busted for drinking 1 week before, so i was grounded as hell.

Well, here we go again. My gf has the house to herself friday and I'm cumin over :D it's not even a mystery why I'm going there, she has plenty of condoms and she's on bc so we're set there.

However, what she doesn't know is that this is going to be my first time :eek: I have fooled around plenty w/girls, but I wasn't sure i wanted to do it until now.

I've been reading stuff on this site and others, and I'm thinking, I'm naturally good at basically everything else, so should I just stop thinking and go for it or what? Should I let my natural male instincts kick in here or what?

If anyone has any decent first-time tips, they would be greatly appreciated. thanks kids
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Yeah, I let myself loose the first time. Sex is mainly about positions. So switch it up often. Once you have more sex, then you can seek advanced techniques.

Your set for now.

Go missionary -> pick up her legs --> bring em close together --> flip her over --> turn her over --> etc

And, make sure you're continuously fvcking -- smooth motions.
 
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I made a first-time guide to having sex... do a search in the HS forum for it, it's about 2-3 months old.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just make sure you know how to put on a condom. Do a search on google or something. The worst thing you want to happen is having your rubber break and you *** inside thinking that your condom was good to go.

Other than that, have fun and............don't bust too early...hehe



Let us know how it goes.
 
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DON'T drink a little, as a previous poster suggested. Drinking makes it more difficult to uh...get it up.
 
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kev, do you realize what is going on?







Ain't nobody in the house but you two. Your going to get your F^&%ing @$$ laid.......You big PimP.


Keep it fresh and clean. Wash it up and most importantly wrap it.
 
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kev, do you realize what is going on?







Ain't nobody in the house but you two. Your going to get your F^&%ing @$$ laid.......You big PimP.


Keep it fresh and clean. Wash it up and most importantly wrap it.
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That too, but I hope that was obvious.
 
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Originally posted by AC/DC
I made a first-time guide to having sex... do a search in the HS forum for it, it's about 2-3 months old.
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What was the title of it? Can u link?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeeaahh i am getting laid haha. If it wasn't a given before then there you go, cuz we talked about it (with a little subtlety of course) but that's why I'm going there, she even told me she got a bunch of diff. kinds of condoms from her friend for x-mas ha!

anyway, i think i am going to eat her out first. I have talked to some of the best men i know with woman (one older guy i work with in summer has had sex with 500+ women in his life, no bs I've seen him in action) and they all do it. Plus I kinda want to since I never have heh. Any opinions/advice on that?

Otherwise I'm pretty sure I'm jus gonna let it flow, cuz i think i'll be ok if I don't think about it too much.
 
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