"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WishIWas

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since I started exercising my sex drive has been fading. has this happened to anybody else?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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are you seriouse?

maybe a coincedance, but i find that after i have a good excercise session, whether it be pumping weights or running or boxing or whatever, i am HOOOORRRRNNNNYYYY for a couple days after.
 

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neither.

pumping weights = higher testosterone = higher sex drive, so I don't know why it's so low.
 

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I think it is because you may be "overtraining". Now I'm usually not one to blame anything on overtraining, I've done some ridiculously high volume arnold like routines and made gains, but it sounds like this could be the cause in your case.


To fix your sex drive there are a few things you could take. All these are OTC.
Arginine Take a few grams a day, at least 3 or so, this helps the blood flow to the penis
Yohimbe Take no more than 40mg of yohimbine, yohimbine is the alkaloid found in yohimbe which will help get blood flow to the penis, try to buy something that says how much yohimbine is actually converted from the yohimbe
Horny Goat Weed(DON'T buy the stuff at walmart) This stuff works well also, just take the recommended dosage
Zinc Take no more than 100mg a day, this also helps increase the blood flow

Post your current routine. Also how many hours of sleep are you getting a night?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by WishIWas
neither.

pumping weights = higher testosterone = higher sex drive, so I don't know why it's so low.
This is true, to be more specific squats and other exercises that work the quadricep muscles help in increasing blood flow to the penis. This is why I am lead to believe that your dysfunction is because of overtraining.
 

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Fitness Guy ... my guess would be that it's because he's just started. It can take your body a couple of weeks to adjust, can it not?
 

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It is really dependant on the routine, there are so many ways to train, I couldn't say without seeing the exact routine. Also sleep is a huge factor, especially when training with weights. I really think it's because he isn't getting enough rest.
 

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i'll tell you this.

rest harder than you workout.

my min hours of sleep are like 10 hours, that's when i'm not working out. if i get like 8 hours sleep i'll be sleepy for the rest of the day and i can't concentrate in school.
 

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I think it is overworking, because I've been exhausted lately despite getting 8+ hours of sleep.

I've been working out for more than a couple of weeks so I don't think it's just taking time to adjust.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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that's happened to me before. I trained to much, and my sex drive went down hill. I took some time off to let my body catch up, and I got horny again.

I also noticed that when im eating right, my sex drive stays up. If I don't eat right when im working out, then my body uses all its energy on rebuilding muscles and not make love juice.
 
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