"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sex Drive

Noob_Lee

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Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJsparky

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Noob_Lee said:
Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
I use to have this. There's a number of things that contributed to mine:

My Diet
Lack of Exercise
Stress

Stop masterbating too much, seriously this can kill your sex drive, try a 30 day non masterbation challenge

Start eating more fruit and veg, target food that benefits your sex drive, i.e water melons, ginger, apples, banana, maca root, celery, walnuts etc

Start exercising more (espcially in the morning) exercise your pc muscle too seems to work in increasing drive

Use hypnosis and calming techniques to de-stress, meditation relaxation and yoga.

Use affirmations and mind movies to affirm that you do indeed have a strong sex drive
 

Noob_Lee

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Yes I can see where your coming from I am a virgin and masturbate ALOT!

Also I am extremely stressed from my career etc and don't no how to get rid of this.
 

DJsparky

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Noob_Lee said:
Yes I can see where your coming from I am a virgin and masturbate ALOT!

Also I am extremely stressed from my career etc and don't no how to get rid of this.
Yeah man it's nothing to worry about, I got this to the point where it drove me crazy and then i turned Raw vegan stopped masturbating and then all of a sudden everytime i saw a girl i just wanted to slam her against the wall and fvck her hard.

Well i came to realize out my diet that there is foods that help your sex drive (all the food I already listed) and foods that hinder your sex drive. (Soy products, Foods with hormones in)

But i would literally stop masterbating for 10 days and see how you are after that, i guarentee that if you do that u'll be calling that girl up and she'll be looking so fvcking sexy that u'll just want her right then :D
 

46and2aheadofme

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Be careful about the masturbation lent thing....At first you're sex drive will be up, but if you stop completely you're sex drive will go down. I experienced this first hand. Just do it in moderation/ see if you can go a week, etc.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonGorgon

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Noob_Lee said:
Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
Gayness and or depression
 

usscrum

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i think its normal for many virgins to not have that huge of a sex drive. after you lose the v-card and realize what you've been missing out on you'll probably jump anything that moves.
 
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