"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Noob_Lee

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Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Noob_Lee said:
Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
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I use to have this. There's a number of things that contributed to mine:

My Diet
Lack of Exercise
Stress

Stop masterbating too much, seriously this can kill your sex drive, try a 30 day non masterbation challenge

Start eating more fruit and veg, target food that benefits your sex drive, i.e water melons, ginger, apples, banana, maca root, celery, walnuts etc

Start exercising more (espcially in the morning) exercise your pc muscle too seems to work in increasing drive

Use hypnosis and calming techniques to de-stress, meditation relaxation and yoga.

Use affirmations and mind movies to affirm that you do indeed have a strong sex drive
 
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Yes I can see where your coming from I am a virgin and masturbate ALOT!

Also I am extremely stressed from my career etc and don't no how to get rid of this.
 
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Noob_Lee said:
Yes I can see where your coming from I am a virgin and masturbate ALOT!

Also I am extremely stressed from my career etc and don't no how to get rid of this.
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Yeah man it's nothing to worry about, I got this to the point where it drove me crazy and then i turned Raw vegan stopped masturbating and then all of a sudden everytime i saw a girl i just wanted to slam her against the wall and fvck her hard.

Well i came to realize out my diet that there is foods that help your sex drive (all the food I already listed) and foods that hinder your sex drive. (Soy products, Foods with hormones in)

But i would literally stop masterbating for 10 days and see how you are after that, i guarentee that if you do that u'll be calling that girl up and she'll be looking so fvcking sexy that u'll just want her right then :D
 
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Be careful about the masturbation lent thing....At first you're sex drive will be up, but if you stop completely you're sex drive will go down. I experienced this first hand. Just do it in moderation/ see if you can go a week, etc.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Noob_Lee said:
Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
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Gayness and or depression
 
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i think its normal for many virgins to not have that huge of a sex drive. after you lose the v-card and realize what you've been missing out on you'll probably jump anything that moves.
 
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