"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Noob_Lee

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Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Noob_Lee said:
Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
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I use to have this. There's a number of things that contributed to mine:

My Diet
Lack of Exercise
Stress

Stop masterbating too much, seriously this can kill your sex drive, try a 30 day non masterbation challenge

Start eating more fruit and veg, target food that benefits your sex drive, i.e water melons, ginger, apples, banana, maca root, celery, walnuts etc

Start exercising more (espcially in the morning) exercise your pc muscle too seems to work in increasing drive

Use hypnosis and calming techniques to de-stress, meditation relaxation and yoga.

Use affirmations and mind movies to affirm that you do indeed have a strong sex drive
 
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Yes I can see where your coming from I am a virgin and masturbate ALOT!

Also I am extremely stressed from my career etc and don't no how to get rid of this.
 
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Noob_Lee said:
Yes I can see where your coming from I am a virgin and masturbate ALOT!

Also I am extremely stressed from my career etc and don't no how to get rid of this.
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Yeah man it's nothing to worry about, I got this to the point where it drove me crazy and then i turned Raw vegan stopped masturbating and then all of a sudden everytime i saw a girl i just wanted to slam her against the wall and fvck her hard.

Well i came to realize out my diet that there is foods that help your sex drive (all the food I already listed) and foods that hinder your sex drive. (Soy products, Foods with hormones in)

But i would literally stop masterbating for 10 days and see how you are after that, i guarentee that if you do that u'll be calling that girl up and she'll be looking so fvcking sexy that u'll just want her right then :D
 
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Be careful about the masturbation lent thing....At first you're sex drive will be up, but if you stop completely you're sex drive will go down. I experienced this first hand. Just do it in moderation/ see if you can go a week, etc.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Noob_Lee said:
Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
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Gayness and or depression
 
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i think its normal for many virgins to not have that huge of a sex drive. after you lose the v-card and realize what you've been missing out on you'll probably jump anything that moves.
 
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