"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Noob_Lee

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Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Noob_Lee said:
Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
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I use to have this. There's a number of things that contributed to mine:

My Diet
Lack of Exercise
Stress

Stop masterbating too much, seriously this can kill your sex drive, try a 30 day non masterbation challenge

Start eating more fruit and veg, target food that benefits your sex drive, i.e water melons, ginger, apples, banana, maca root, celery, walnuts etc

Start exercising more (espcially in the morning) exercise your pc muscle too seems to work in increasing drive

Use hypnosis and calming techniques to de-stress, meditation relaxation and yoga.

Use affirmations and mind movies to affirm that you do indeed have a strong sex drive
 
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Yes I can see where your coming from I am a virgin and masturbate ALOT!

Also I am extremely stressed from my career etc and don't no how to get rid of this.
 
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Noob_Lee said:
Yes I can see where your coming from I am a virgin and masturbate ALOT!

Also I am extremely stressed from my career etc and don't no how to get rid of this.
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Yeah man it's nothing to worry about, I got this to the point where it drove me crazy and then i turned Raw vegan stopped masturbating and then all of a sudden everytime i saw a girl i just wanted to slam her against the wall and fvck her hard.

Well i came to realize out my diet that there is foods that help your sex drive (all the food I already listed) and foods that hinder your sex drive. (Soy products, Foods with hormones in)

But i would literally stop masterbating for 10 days and see how you are after that, i guarentee that if you do that u'll be calling that girl up and she'll be looking so fvcking sexy that u'll just want her right then :D
 
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46and2aheadofme

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Be careful about the masturbation lent thing....At first you're sex drive will be up, but if you stop completely you're sex drive will go down. I experienced this first hand. Just do it in moderation/ see if you can go a week, etc.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Noob_Lee said:
Hi,

I don't seem to have any sex drive at all. When a girl seems to like me I just don't seem to want to go out with her that much if you get me.

I don't seem to want to make the effort to get girls.

How can a solve this seriously it is starting to worry me?
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Gayness and or depression
 
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i think its normal for many virgins to not have that huge of a sex drive. after you lose the v-card and realize what you've been missing out on you'll probably jump anything that moves.
 
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