"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sex drive, what is it?

Do you feel a strong NEED to have sex?

  • Yes

    Votes: 11 61.1%

  • No

    Votes: 7 38.9%
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Quiksilver

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I've never actually felt a *need* to have sex. Last year, when I was a virg, it was still more of a "What is so interesting about sex?" sort of perspective. Since then I've wheeled through several chicks, but for some reason, I'm not interested anymore.

It's at the point where I don't even care about getting a girlfriend, or even having sex for that matter. I go to a bar, and the first thing I do is look at the television and think "who's pitching in the game tonite?". I go to a house party and instead of prowlin fr poon, gaming and such, I just find someone with a 40 of vodka and see how much I can get them to give me through the night.

I see a hot girl and I think "that looks hot" and then look at something else, meanwhile my pals are still staring up her skirt.

What sort of things could be the reason for the most effective short-circuit of my sex drive? On that same note, what are some ways to get it back?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FoolsCause

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Why are you wondering about "getting back" something you say you never really had?
 
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L777

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Without meaning to ory, do you masturbate a lot? I cut down to once a week, and it definitely increases your sex drive....lifting weights also does, I believe as well.

Also, I find that having sex increases your sex drive...just something to consider.
 
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OzyBoy

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I wish i was having sex with my girlfriend now. I try not to masturbate too much i guess thats why. :yes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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