"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sex drive, what is it?

Do you feel a strong NEED to have sex?

  • Yes

    Votes: 11 61.1%

  • No

    Votes: 7 38.9%
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Quiksilver

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I've never actually felt a *need* to have sex. Last year, when I was a virg, it was still more of a "What is so interesting about sex?" sort of perspective. Since then I've wheeled through several chicks, but for some reason, I'm not interested anymore.

It's at the point where I don't even care about getting a girlfriend, or even having sex for that matter. I go to a bar, and the first thing I do is look at the television and think "who's pitching in the game tonite?". I go to a house party and instead of prowlin fr poon, gaming and such, I just find someone with a 40 of vodka and see how much I can get them to give me through the night.

I see a hot girl and I think "that looks hot" and then look at something else, meanwhile my pals are still staring up her skirt.

What sort of things could be the reason for the most effective short-circuit of my sex drive? On that same note, what are some ways to get it back?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FoolsCause

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Why are you wondering about "getting back" something you say you never really had?
 
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L777

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Without meaning to ory, do you masturbate a lot? I cut down to once a week, and it definitely increases your sex drive....lifting weights also does, I believe as well.

Also, I find that having sex increases your sex drive...just something to consider.
 
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OzyBoy

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I wish i was having sex with my girlfriend now. I try not to masturbate too much i guess thats why. :yes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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