"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sex drive, what is it?

Do you feel a strong NEED to have sex?

  • Yes

    Votes: 11 61.1%
  • No

    Votes: 7 38.9%

  • Total voters
    18

Quiksilver

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I've never actually felt a *need* to have sex. Last year, when I was a virg, it was still more of a "What is so interesting about sex?" sort of perspective. Since then I've wheeled through several chicks, but for some reason, I'm not interested anymore.

It's at the point where I don't even care about getting a girlfriend, or even having sex for that matter. I go to a bar, and the first thing I do is look at the television and think "who's pitching in the game tonite?". I go to a house party and instead of prowlin fr poon, gaming and such, I just find someone with a 40 of vodka and see how much I can get them to give me through the night.

I see a hot girl and I think "that looks hot" and then look at something else, meanwhile my pals are still staring up her skirt.

What sort of things could be the reason for the most effective short-circuit of my sex drive? On that same note, what are some ways to get it back?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FoolsCause

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Why are you wondering about "getting back" something you say you never really had?
 

L777

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Without meaning to ory, do you masturbate a lot? I cut down to once a week, and it definitely increases your sex drive....lifting weights also does, I believe as well.

Also, I find that having sex increases your sex drive...just something to consider.
 

OzyBoy

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I wish i was having sex with my girlfriend now. I try not to masturbate too much i guess thats why. :yes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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