"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sammo

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Nice job Stalin. For a moderator, you're a terrible judge of what this forum is about. His problem, like it or not, has to do with relationships, which have to do with chicks, which this site is about. If this were a pickup forum, it would be ASF. This forum has included relationship problems since I started posting in 2002, and it is not bloody likely to stop including them anytime soon. If you don't like it, you probably shouldn't be a moderator unless you can adjust without trying to conform everyone to your view.
His problem is not about the relationship, it's wether or not he is ready to have sex. Thats a moral decision - you really think a board dedicated to seducing women is the best place to come for moral advice?

I think i came over wrong. I am all for relationships as much as the next man here and everyone here has different goals with women which is great, but this isnt the best place to ask wether or not sex will 'spoil' a relationship.

To the original poster.. Instinctually relationships are about sex(the chemicals that create 'love' are a result of sex), it WILL make you closer. However, i'm not a religious person so i dont really want to advise anything - i can't relate.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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