Sex and relationships.

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

In my experience and through people i've known....

1. People who have sex first before they start dating. Seem to have a shorter relationship. Because, that's what their relationship is based on. Sex.

And

2. People who got to know each other then, started dating and then, started having sex. Had a longer lasting relationship because, they got to know and understand one another first.

Has this been true for other people? And what are you opinions on sex before or after the relationship begins?

 

[aliasguy]

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I don't believe that there is ANY correlation at ALL between the two.


Most here advise nailing the chick before "formalizing " anything.

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[ready123]

I don't believe that there is ANY correlation at ALL between the two.

me neither

what about the ones who wait to have sex and then the girl finds out the guy is lousy in bed and then cheats on him because of it

 

[young_gun]

Don't see any correlation, I want to test the car out before I buy it.

 

[SparkleMotion]

Having sex is a necessary condition for me even considering dating a girl.

Who wants to be in a relationship with girl who is sexually repressed?

 

[aliasguy]

Sex always halfes the duration of relationships unless your married.

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Says who? And, I doubt that was a typo.

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[Ace of Flames]

The only reason the relationships last longer when you wait to have sex is because you waited! Duh!

Lol, but seriously, it doesn't matter if you wait or not, as long as you keep both the physical and emotional sides of your relationship balanced. If anything, the sex-first relationships end sooner because the sex gets stale sooner. If you make sure to keep your sex life exciting, then you should have nothing to worry about.