"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In my experience and through people i've known....

1. People who have sex first before they start dating. Seem to have a shorter relationship. Because, that's what their relationship is based on. Sex.

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2. People who got to know each other then, started dating and then, started having sex. Had a longer lasting relationship because, they got to know and understand one another first.

Has this been true for other people? And what are you opinions on sex before or after the relationship begins?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't believe that there is ANY correlation at ALL between the two.


Most here advise nailing the chick before "formalizing " anything.

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aliasguy said:
I don't believe that there is ANY correlation at ALL between the two.
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me neither

what about the ones who wait to have sex and then the girl finds out the guy is lousy in bed and then cheats on him because of it
 
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Don't see any correlation, I want to test the car out before I buy it.
 
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Having sex is a necessary condition for me even considering dating a girl.

Who wants to be in a relationship with girl who is sexually repressed?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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oldschooler said:
Sex always halfes the duration of relationships unless your married.
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Says who? And, I doubt that was a typo.

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The only reason the relationships last longer when you wait to have sex is because you waited! Duh!

Lol, but seriously, it doesn't matter if you wait or not, as long as you keep both the physical and emotional sides of your relationship balanced. If anything, the sex-first relationships end sooner because the sex gets stale sooner. If you make sure to keep your sex life exciting, then you should have nothing to worry about.
 
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