"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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In my experience and through people i've known....

1. People who have sex first before they start dating. Seem to have a shorter relationship. Because, that's what their relationship is based on. Sex.

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2. People who got to know each other then, started dating and then, started having sex. Had a longer lasting relationship because, they got to know and understand one another first.

Has this been true for other people? And what are you opinions on sex before or after the relationship begins?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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aliasguy

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I don't believe that there is ANY correlation at ALL between the two.


Most here advise nailing the chick before "formalizing " anything.

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ready123

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aliasguy said:
I don't believe that there is ANY correlation at ALL between the two.
me neither

what about the ones who wait to have sex and then the girl finds out the guy is lousy in bed and then cheats on him because of it
 

young_gun

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Don't see any correlation, I want to test the car out before I buy it.
 

SparkleMotion

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Having sex is a necessary condition for me even considering dating a girl.

Who wants to be in a relationship with girl who is sexually repressed?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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aliasguy

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oldschooler said:
Sex always halfes the duration of relationships unless your married.

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Says who? And, I doubt that was a typo.

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Ace of Flames

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The only reason the relationships last longer when you wait to have sex is because you waited! Duh!

Lol, but seriously, it doesn't matter if you wait or not, as long as you keep both the physical and emotional sides of your relationship balanced. If anything, the sex-first relationships end sooner because the sex gets stale sooner. If you make sure to keep your sex life exciting, then you should have nothing to worry about.
 
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