Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Sex after quitting porn

MrMcHaza

New Member
Joined
Jan 23, 2023
Messages
3
Reaction score
1
Age
23
So I’ve recently joined a community and I’ve taken on a no porn no masturbation challenge. I’m 17 days in my confidence has gone through the roof I’m attracting females through the rational male. The thing is I had sex today and i shot my load way too fast this really shook my confidence. I’ve got females that want me but I’m just to afraid this would happen again. Does anyone have any advice on this or experience does this get better. I’m good on the field and I can get women this is putting me off because I don’t want to embarrass myself.
 

stringpuller

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 21, 2017
Messages
8,931
Reaction score
6,326
So I’ve recently joined a community and I’ve taken on a no porn no masturbation challenge. I’m 17 days in my confidence has gone through the roof I’m attracting females through the rational male. The thing is I had sex today and i shot my load way too fast this really shook my confidence. I’ve got females that want me but I’m just to afraid this would happen again. Does anyone have any advice on this or experience does this get better. I’m good on the field and I can get women this is putting me off because I don’t want to embarrass myself.
It gets better the more you bang. Keep banging just do multiple sets
 
Joined
Dec 20, 2022
Messages
165
Reaction score
233
Location
EU
So I’ve recently joined a community and I’ve taken on a no porn no masturbation challenge. I’m 17 days in my confidence has gone through the roof I’m attracting females through the rational male. The thing is I had sex today and i shot my load way too fast this really shook my confidence. I’ve got females that want me but I’m just to afraid this would happen again. Does anyone have any advice on this or experience does this get better. I’m good on the field and I can get women this is putting me off because I don’t want to embarrass myself.
I always had that problem regardless the porn, it basically happened 80% of the times with no connection to the beauty of the girl.

The only solution is telling them that you're horny and you're gonna fill them up fast cause you're not in the mood to control yourself.

The second round usually goes much better and the third one even more.
If I manage to get to yound 4 I can basically jackhammer nonstop with no issue, actually it gets hard to finish.

The only issue is that sometimes you cant recover after round 1, it doesnt depend on any factor I'm aware to, sometime it just happens.

Be very honest and clear about it with an unapologetic attitude.
 

Billtx49

Moderator
Joined
May 23, 2013
Messages
5,827
Reaction score
5,196
Location
DFW
So I’ve recently joined a community and I’ve taken on a no porn no masturbation challenge. I’m 17 days in my confidence has gone through the roof I’m attracting females through the rational male. The thing is I had sex today and i shot my load way too fast this really shook my confidence. I’ve got females that want me but I’m just to afraid this would happen again. Does anyone have any advice on this or experience does this get better. I’m good on the field and I can get women this is putting me off because I don’t want to embarrass myself.
Finishing too early can be mentally reversed. Even with a regular lay girl being early can happen occasionally and can be caused by a heightened and aroused emotional state which may supersede your rational and logical thinking pattern.
Develop the ability to separate your mental activity from the sex act by temporarily thinking exclusively about something completely different than the sex, concentrating on a bathtub full of ice cubes buys me more time when needed and serves to level my head back out.
 

Warning!

Do not subscribe to The SoSuave Newsletter unless you are already a chick magnet!

The information in each issue of The SoSuave Newsletter is too powerful for most guys to handle. If you are an ordinary guy, it is not for you. It is meant for the elite few. Not the unwashed masses.

If you know you can handle it...

If you already have girls calling you at all hours of the day and night, showing up at your door, throwing themselves at you everywhere you go...

Then sign up below.

But if you're just an average Joe, an ordinary guy, no one special – then skip this. It is not for you.

LARaiders85

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 4, 2016
Messages
10,879
Reaction score
10,707
Age
38
I really lost my sexual creativity when I did that. I think it might be a good thing overall in the long run.
 

Lifeman

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 28, 2022
Messages
34
Reaction score
8
Age
27
So I’ve recently joined a community and I’ve taken on a no porn no masturbation challenge. I’m 17 days in my confidence has gone through the roof I’m attracting females through the rational male. The thing is I had sex today and i shot my load way too fast this really shook my confidence. I’ve got females that want me but I’m just to afraid this would happen again. Does anyone have any advice on this or experience does this get better. I’m good on the field and I can get women this is putting me off because I don’t want to embarrass myself.
Get those wipe things that are used to reduce stimulation and use them right before you drive into that box. They are at your local pharmacy store, or online.
 

Murk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 17, 2017
Messages
3,465
Reaction score
2,315
It's not really the porn it's the lack of masturbation/ejaculation. When I started no fap/porn I would nut soooo fast, like as soon as my D entered my girl's V, I would literally know then and there, I'm not gonna last. I would feel how good it felt and know in that instant I will be nutting in 2-3 minutes.

Don't fight it, embrace it, get that nut and go again. After a while you get your old strength back. I was literally nutting in under 5 minutes but not fully enjoying it as I was so pissed off I was cumming quick.

Don't worry about it, keep going. These side effects fade after a few months of regular sex.
 

Jake_Gyllenhaal69

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2021
Messages
3,558
Reaction score
2,790
Age
27
I had just the opposite problem. Both of them suck, tbh. I figured out that my body will only finish in certain positions and I love hearing girls moan while I’m screwing them. Do you finish with girls on too easily because I can’t?
 

Juanto

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 11, 2016
Messages
718
Reaction score
281
Age
40
just abstain from porn as much as you can and bang several times a week, eventually you will be in control (maybe not 100% of the times but most of the time) and sex will be an even better experience for both you and the girl
 

sangheilios

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 25, 2018
Messages
1,838
Reaction score
1,658
Age
32
You guys are looking way too into this. @MrMcHaza specifically stated that he went 17 days without masturbating, I'm going to assume that meant 0 ejaculation at all in that time frame. That is a very long time to go without a sexual release and it's totally understandable why he wasn't able to last long.
 

SW15

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2020
Messages
7,578
Reaction score
6,654
If you quit porn and masturbation, you are re-wiring your brain's dopamine and reward circuitry. This takes longer than 17 days. This can take anywhere from months to years.

In general, sex after quitting porn and masturbation becomes better.
 

Howiestern

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
3,751
Reaction score
4,346
Age
46
When I haven't busted a nut in awhile I run the risk of cumming too quickly during sex. Doesn't matter if I look at p0rn or not.

To overcome that I drink alcohol, masturbate before, or mentally think of something other than her while we are having sex. Regular sex is the only thing that cures the problem.
 

image

Put away your credit card.

You can now read our detailed guide to women and dating for free - Right Here!

eli77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2013
Messages
1,435
Reaction score
312
Location
Miami fl
You need to learn how to control your muscle groups and your penis so when you take a piss stop midstream over and over again that's one way do that along with no fap and no p*** and you'll be good how old are you by the way that also plays a factor
 
Top