"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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donArjun

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Alright guys , goal is to get a gf/ons/lay in the next 7 days. This will be updated daily. Todays is pre- seven day so I don't count that in:

Day 8: went clubbing....
I have this polo shirt long sleeve...usually wear it to work only, but yesterday I decided i'll go clubing in it...

Its hard NOT to feel like your the **** , when you have expensive clothes on,...and I felt there was no pressure to perform, ...I had sneakers on too, and the seriousness , I usually have , didn't strangle my creativity nor my fun and that was important thing...

I came off like I am worth a million bucks to all the ladies I met, The clothes itself got me attention, but it was the waY I FELt when I had them on, which translated to confidence which the women picked up too.

Basically, yesterday I earned my confidence by accomplishing two things

a) I finished running my goals in the gym for the week...
b) I finished a week long extensive diet

both these things made me like more self-worth, like I can accomplish something, and that out fit I was wearing, got womens attention, I felt like I was the boss like I was the King and the proper attitude; but unfortunetly I just went out to kick it , no #s attempts made.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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donArjun

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Today was spent mostly doing errands so I can't count today as a 'day', but I will be on tomorrow with day 7 !

IF you feel you can't approach her and be direct out of the bag and ask her "Hi, how ya doing ? My name is DjArjun.. whats your name , where you from, do you like it etc." if you don't feel comfortable doing the simpliest of things like that , and yes it does take confidence, then .. how the hell do you expect her to be with you for 3 or 4 dates...so in essence, if you've read your IOI signals, you should be able to be comfortable. doing this or at least sense you can do this,.....else..if you sense you don't her attention enough to be comfortable doing this, you aren't going to get very far...she can't even bear you for a few minutes , how can you expect her to bear you for 3 or 4 dates ? Sarge on...
 

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More power to you, but man, 7 days is a tight schedule.

To turn a stranger into a gf in 7 days is out of the question. You might get laid, but it'll be a ONS. Have you done that before?
 
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