"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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donArjun

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Alright guys , goal is to get a gf/ons/lay in the next 7 days. This will be updated daily. Todays is pre- seven day so I don't count that in:

Day 8: went clubbing....
I have this polo shirt long sleeve...usually wear it to work only, but yesterday I decided i'll go clubing in it...

Its hard NOT to feel like your the **** , when you have expensive clothes on,...and I felt there was no pressure to perform, ...I had sneakers on too, and the seriousness , I usually have , didn't strangle my creativity nor my fun and that was important thing...

I came off like I am worth a million bucks to all the ladies I met, The clothes itself got me attention, but it was the waY I FELt when I had them on, which translated to confidence which the women picked up too.

Basically, yesterday I earned my confidence by accomplishing two things

a) I finished running my goals in the gym for the week...
b) I finished a week long extensive diet

both these things made me like more self-worth, like I can accomplish something, and that out fit I was wearing, got womens attention, I felt like I was the boss like I was the King and the proper attitude; but unfortunetly I just went out to kick it , no #s attempts made.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Today was spent mostly doing errands so I can't count today as a 'day', but I will be on tomorrow with day 7 !

IF you feel you can't approach her and be direct out of the bag and ask her "Hi, how ya doing ? My name is DjArjun.. whats your name , where you from, do you like it etc." if you don't feel comfortable doing the simpliest of things like that , and yes it does take confidence, then .. how the hell do you expect her to be with you for 3 or 4 dates...so in essence, if you've read your IOI signals, you should be able to be comfortable. doing this or at least sense you can do this,.....else..if you sense you don't her attention enough to be comfortable doing this, you aren't going to get very far...she can't even bear you for a few minutes , how can you expect her to bear you for 3 or 4 dates ? Sarge on...
 
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More power to you, but man, 7 days is a tight schedule.

To turn a stranger into a gf in 7 days is out of the question. You might get laid, but it'll be a ONS. Have you done that before?
 
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