"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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donArjun

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Alright guys , goal is to get a gf/ons/lay in the next 7 days. This will be updated daily. Todays is pre- seven day so I don't count that in:

Day 8: went clubbing....
I have this polo shirt long sleeve...usually wear it to work only, but yesterday I decided i'll go clubing in it...

Its hard NOT to feel like your the **** , when you have expensive clothes on,...and I felt there was no pressure to perform, ...I had sneakers on too, and the seriousness , I usually have , didn't strangle my creativity nor my fun and that was important thing...

I came off like I am worth a million bucks to all the ladies I met, The clothes itself got me attention, but it was the waY I FELt when I had them on, which translated to confidence which the women picked up too.

Basically, yesterday I earned my confidence by accomplishing two things

a) I finished running my goals in the gym for the week...
b) I finished a week long extensive diet

both these things made me like more self-worth, like I can accomplish something, and that out fit I was wearing, got womens attention, I felt like I was the boss like I was the King and the proper attitude; but unfortunetly I just went out to kick it , no #s attempts made.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Today was spent mostly doing errands so I can't count today as a 'day', but I will be on tomorrow with day 7 !

IF you feel you can't approach her and be direct out of the bag and ask her "Hi, how ya doing ? My name is DjArjun.. whats your name , where you from, do you like it etc." if you don't feel comfortable doing the simpliest of things like that , and yes it does take confidence, then .. how the hell do you expect her to be with you for 3 or 4 dates...so in essence, if you've read your IOI signals, you should be able to be comfortable. doing this or at least sense you can do this,.....else..if you sense you don't her attention enough to be comfortable doing this, you aren't going to get very far...she can't even bear you for a few minutes , how can you expect her to bear you for 3 or 4 dates ? Sarge on...
 
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More power to you, but man, 7 days is a tight schedule.

To turn a stranger into a gf in 7 days is out of the question. You might get laid, but it'll be a ONS. Have you done that before?
 
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