"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Served a girl from my School

PeterCrouch

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I work in a shop and have just served a girl I used to go to School with. I didn't recognise her untill she had gone and neither did she recognise me (To be fair, I look very different)

She was quite honestly one of the prettiest girls I have ever seen today. Completely changed.

I served her cat food. I just looked her up on facebook. I already had her as a friend.

How do I go about starting up a chat with her again after what is about 7/8 years of not seeing or speaking to her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marinetti

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i'd say post on her wall with something like "hey ***, I think I may have just seen you at Chunky's Pets the other day. if so, it was good seeing you again!" and then wait for her message back. after a couple days, then either respond on the wall again, or if it looks like it's going to be a long message, send her a PM with a brief catching her up on things, and then invite to something. it may be a relative long shot, but hey, if you didn't say anything to her when you saw her, it's going to be a long shot regardless of what you do.
 

Joe Stud

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Good advice marinetti. all I may come up with to add is... maybe try to mention "have you run into jane doe, or john doe from school? I heard they are doing well". If you mention people she knew and liked from school days, it may trigger her to interface with you to go down the memory lane of her school days.
 
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