"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Served a girl from my School

PeterCrouch

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I work in a shop and have just served a girl I used to go to School with. I didn't recognise her untill she had gone and neither did she recognise me (To be fair, I look very different)

She was quite honestly one of the prettiest girls I have ever seen today. Completely changed.

I served her cat food. I just looked her up on facebook. I already had her as a friend.

How do I go about starting up a chat with her again after what is about 7/8 years of not seeing or speaking to her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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marinetti

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i'd say post on her wall with something like "hey ***, I think I may have just seen you at Chunky's Pets the other day. if so, it was good seeing you again!" and then wait for her message back. after a couple days, then either respond on the wall again, or if it looks like it's going to be a long message, send her a PM with a brief catching her up on things, and then invite to something. it may be a relative long shot, but hey, if you didn't say anything to her when you saw her, it's going to be a long shot regardless of what you do.
 

Joe Stud

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Good advice marinetti. all I may come up with to add is... maybe try to mention "have you run into jane doe, or john doe from school? I heard they are doing well". If you mention people she knew and liked from school days, it may trigger her to interface with you to go down the memory lane of her school days.
 
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