Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Served a girl from my School

PeterCrouch

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I work in a shop and have just served a girl I used to go to School with. I didn't recognise her untill she had gone and neither did she recognise me (To be fair, I look very different)

She was quite honestly one of the prettiest girls I have ever seen today. Completely changed.

I served her cat food. I just looked her up on facebook. I already had her as a friend.

How do I go about starting up a chat with her again after what is about 7/8 years of not seeing or speaking to her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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marinetti

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i'd say post on her wall with something like "hey ***, I think I may have just seen you at Chunky's Pets the other day. if so, it was good seeing you again!" and then wait for her message back. after a couple days, then either respond on the wall again, or if it looks like it's going to be a long message, send her a PM with a brief catching her up on things, and then invite to something. it may be a relative long shot, but hey, if you didn't say anything to her when you saw her, it's going to be a long shot regardless of what you do.
 

Joe Stud

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Good advice marinetti. all I may come up with to add is... maybe try to mention "have you run into jane doe, or john doe from school? I heard they are doing well". If you mention people she knew and liked from school days, it may trigger her to interface with you to go down the memory lane of her school days.
 
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