"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how important are looks? i know its been asked alot.but how much? is it only the prettiest/hottest girls go for the best looking guys? is it just me? what?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OddManOut85 said:
how important are looks? i know its been asked alot.but how much? is it only the prettiest/hottest girls go for the best looking guys? is it just me? what?
dont even listen to what people tell you, if you are an ugly short fat asian, no matter how well you game you are not going to get a hot girl, when have you ver seen a super ugly guy with a super hot girl? NEVER

girls are attracted to good looking guys just as guys are atracted to good looking girls, as simple as that
 

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so are you saying there is no hope for someone who is average looking?
 

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well come to think of it,i have seen not so attractive guys with really good lookin girls and vice versa.
 

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Any guy can get any girl. It's simple. If you have the tools, you'll get the girls.

Physical appearance is only one piece of the puzzle.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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those tools being?
 

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money money money.... just kidding.. but seriosly... with these three tools you can BUY lots and lots oF plastic surgery...

ok listen up... projection is every thing if you have an ugly face there is little you can do about that.. but what you can do is controle your body.. work out.. were things that bring out the good things and minimize the bad things..

for example if you have freakishly huge ears.. grow out ur hair.. if your a fata$$ where black... if ur short... dont where horizontal stripes... u know what im saying right...

TOOLS: confidence, social value, knowledge of the game, and most imporantly alfa male ATTITUDE...
 

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well i aint ugly.i can say that.i aint bradd pitt but i aint sloth from the goonies either.im trying to lose weight.ive lost almost 30 lbs so far.see,i know i could easily be well,a 10.had i worked out sooner.the alpha male attitude? how do you adopt it/develop it? i mean,alpha male to me means the one with the power,the leader,confidence,etc.social value meaning like popularity?
 

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i really dont know what is it like for an average looking person to game, never had that experience

but in theory, being average looking would mean less initial and physical attration, which makes cold approaches and any other approaches dealing with strangers more difficult

but you can still make it up with all the DJ personality traits

can an average looking guy get hot chicks? definitely yes
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Of course looks matter but I mean the girls you think are so hot are probally just as average looking as you without makeup, unless by average looking you mean an ugly nose and giant ears and sh!t like that.

An average looking guy will still be hot in the eyes of an average looking girl, the extra hotness factor is usually dependant on the style of clothes and stuff. I wouldn't worry if you don't look like a freak.
 

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I know some ugly kid who has a girl which would be able to get way better then him.

Probably how his personality is.
 
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