OddManOut85
Don Juan
how important are looks? i know its been asked alot.but how much? is it only the prettiest/hottest girls go for the best looking guys? is it just me? what?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
seriously now....
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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dont even listen to what people tell you, if you are an ugly short fat asian, no matter how well you game you are not going to get a hot girl, when have you ver seen a super ugly guy with a super hot girl? NEVEROddManOut85 said:how important are looks? i know its been asked alot.but how much? is it only the prettiest/hottest girls go for the best looking guys? is it just me? what?
girls are attracted to good looking guys just as guys are atracted to good looking girls, as simple as that
OddManOut85
Don Juan
so are you saying there is no hope for someone who is average looking?
OddManOut85
Don Juan
well come to think of it,i have seen not so attractive guys with really good lookin girls and vice versa.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
OddManOut85
Don Juan
those tools being?
money money money.... just kidding.. but seriosly... with these three tools you can BUY lots and lots oF plastic surgery...
ok listen up... projection is every thing if you have an ugly face there is little you can do about that.. but what you can do is controle your body.. work out.. were things that bring out the good things and minimize the bad things..
for example if you have freakishly huge ears.. grow out ur hair.. if your a fata$$ where black... if ur short... dont where horizontal stripes... u know what im saying right...
TOOLS: confidence, social value, knowledge of the game, and most imporantly alfa male ATTITUDE...
ok listen up... projection is every thing if you have an ugly face there is little you can do about that.. but what you can do is controle your body.. work out.. were things that bring out the good things and minimize the bad things..
for example if you have freakishly huge ears.. grow out ur hair.. if your a fata$$ where black... if ur short... dont where horizontal stripes... u know what im saying right...
TOOLS: confidence, social value, knowledge of the game, and most imporantly alfa male ATTITUDE...
OddManOut85
Don Juan
well i aint ugly.i can say that.i aint bradd pitt but i aint sloth from the goonies either.im trying to lose weight.ive lost almost 30 lbs so far.see,i know i could easily be well,a 10.had i worked out sooner.the alpha male attitude? how do you adopt it/develop it? i mean,alpha male to me means the one with the power,the leader,confidence,etc.social value meaning like popularity?
i really dont know what is it like for an average looking person to game, never had that experience
but in theory, being average looking would mean less initial and physical attration, which makes cold approaches and any other approaches dealing with strangers more difficult
but you can still make it up with all the DJ personality traits
can an average looking guy get hot chicks? definitely yes
but in theory, being average looking would mean less initial and physical attration, which makes cold approaches and any other approaches dealing with strangers more difficult
but you can still make it up with all the DJ personality traits
can an average looking guy get hot chicks? definitely yes
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Of course looks matter but I mean the girls you think are so hot are probally just as average looking as you without makeup, unless by average looking you mean an ugly nose and giant ears and sh!t like that.
An average looking guy will still be hot in the eyes of an average looking girl, the extra hotness factor is usually dependant on the style of clothes and stuff. I wouldn't worry if you don't look like a freak.
An average looking guy will still be hot in the eyes of an average looking girl, the extra hotness factor is usually dependant on the style of clothes and stuff. I wouldn't worry if you don't look like a freak.