OddManOut85
Don Juan
how important are looks? i know its been asked alot.but how much? is it only the prettiest/hottest girls go for the best looking guys? is it just me? what?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
seriously now....
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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dont even listen to what people tell you, if you are an ugly short fat asian, no matter how well you game you are not going to get a hot girl, when have you ver seen a super ugly guy with a super hot girl? NEVEROddManOut85 said:how important are looks? i know its been asked alot.but how much? is it only the prettiest/hottest girls go for the best looking guys? is it just me? what?
girls are attracted to good looking guys just as guys are atracted to good looking girls, as simple as that
OddManOut85
Don Juan
so are you saying there is no hope for someone who is average looking?
OddManOut85
Don Juan
well come to think of it,i have seen not so attractive guys with really good lookin girls and vice versa.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
OddManOut85
Don Juan
those tools being?
money money money.... just kidding.. but seriosly... with these three tools you can BUY lots and lots oF plastic surgery...
ok listen up... projection is every thing if you have an ugly face there is little you can do about that.. but what you can do is controle your body.. work out.. were things that bring out the good things and minimize the bad things..
for example if you have freakishly huge ears.. grow out ur hair.. if your a fata$$ where black... if ur short... dont where horizontal stripes... u know what im saying right...
TOOLS: confidence, social value, knowledge of the game, and most imporantly alfa male ATTITUDE...
ok listen up... projection is every thing if you have an ugly face there is little you can do about that.. but what you can do is controle your body.. work out.. were things that bring out the good things and minimize the bad things..
for example if you have freakishly huge ears.. grow out ur hair.. if your a fata$$ where black... if ur short... dont where horizontal stripes... u know what im saying right...
TOOLS: confidence, social value, knowledge of the game, and most imporantly alfa male ATTITUDE...
OddManOut85
Don Juan
well i aint ugly.i can say that.i aint bradd pitt but i aint sloth from the goonies either.im trying to lose weight.ive lost almost 30 lbs so far.see,i know i could easily be well,a 10.had i worked out sooner.the alpha male attitude? how do you adopt it/develop it? i mean,alpha male to me means the one with the power,the leader,confidence,etc.social value meaning like popularity?
i really dont know what is it like for an average looking person to game, never had that experience
but in theory, being average looking would mean less initial and physical attration, which makes cold approaches and any other approaches dealing with strangers more difficult
but you can still make it up with all the DJ personality traits
can an average looking guy get hot chicks? definitely yes
but in theory, being average looking would mean less initial and physical attration, which makes cold approaches and any other approaches dealing with strangers more difficult
but you can still make it up with all the DJ personality traits
can an average looking guy get hot chicks? definitely yes
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Of course looks matter but I mean the girls you think are so hot are probally just as average looking as you without makeup, unless by average looking you mean an ugly nose and giant ears and sh!t like that.
An average looking guy will still be hot in the eyes of an average looking girl, the extra hotness factor is usually dependant on the style of clothes and stuff. I wouldn't worry if you don't look like a freak.
An average looking guy will still be hot in the eyes of an average looking girl, the extra hotness factor is usually dependant on the style of clothes and stuff. I wouldn't worry if you don't look like a freak.