“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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frank05

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Are you most or the time serious or most of the time laughing?
I'm naturally a very ****y and funny guy. I can find a ****y comment for every random situation. But sometimes I come myself as goofy. Think of Stiffler in American pie. I've developed his same energetic,****y and goofy character. I mean I can keep a woman laughing all the time, but when I do this I laugh myself,too, and my voice tone and posture get messed up.
Although I'm having moderate success with this, I'm thinking of changing my behavior
Lately I've thought that it would better to be more calm, relaxed,talking without laughing or smiling too often and throwing a ****y and funny comment once in a while and in the correct times. Something more in the direction of James Bond's character. Have you tried both ways? Which behavior has given you more success with women and generally in all situations?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm not absolutely positive, but what worked with this one girl was that earlier in the night, when we're out doing things, whatever, i'm mostly c+f, throw some serious conversation in, but still mainly just try to have fun.

as it gets later, start being more serious, with a little bit of funniness to spice things up.
 

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You got to have the right balance between the two.
 

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Originally posted by Dukester
i be myself, and that is a huge success
I agree and say don't worry about it. I tried doing that and sometimes I would still come off as my ****y/funny self while being serious and the female would take offense, lol. I'm still suffering the side effects with my girlfriend.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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