"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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denverfan110

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If you thought a girl was worth it, would you ever get into a relationship with her living an hour drive apart (and the potentiality to see each other on the weekends) and full weeks every so often.

This is assuming she's actually worth it. High trust in the relationship. Confident she wont cheat and being with her is sexually and platonically pleasant.

Trying to prove a point to someone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JoeMarron

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No problem. An hour is nothing. Some people drive further to get to work everyday. I'd say a true long distance relationship is anyone who requires a plane to get to in a reasonable amount of time.
 

Tictac

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Distance is nothing.

Time is everything.

An hour? I live in NYC and have a lot of good people and stuff around me. I know people in CT and NJ that drive an hour to do just about everything.
 

pinkfl

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If you meet the right person, an hour is nothing. I'd happily be in a relationship with someone outside of my town if they are truly compatible with me.

If it's someone I'm not sure about, or I have any doubts, then no. Because then they are no better than the people that I've met in my area thus far, PLUS they live an hour away.
 

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Only if she comes to ME the majority of the time and lives in a place I actually like to visit. Otherwise no.

Spine plates. Stop looking for a soul mate.

While we're on this topic I'd like to point out how pathetic most men's ideal woman really is. When you ask most men what makes a woman "worth it" to make huge sacrificies, spend lots of money and stop f*cking other women... the list of qualities usually boils down to:

- She is hot
- She f*cks me
- She has manners
- She hasn't f*cked 1,000 other men (as for as he knows)
- She likes the stuff I like

When you really think about it.. this is f*cking pathetic. All a woman needs to do to make a man go crazy is be sexually attractive and not treat him like complete garbage? That's it? And he is in love? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I've had too many friends like this. Totally head over heels over a woman because she smiles a lot and doesn't argue. Its gotten to the point where men get excited over common manners.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Be prepared for the "but if I need a hug, you're not there" line in these situations.
 
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