"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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denverfan110

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If you thought a girl was worth it, would you ever get into a relationship with her living an hour drive apart (and the potentiality to see each other on the weekends) and full weeks every so often.

This is assuming she's actually worth it. High trust in the relationship. Confident she wont cheat and being with her is sexually and platonically pleasant.

Trying to prove a point to someone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JoeMarron

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No problem. An hour is nothing. Some people drive further to get to work everyday. I'd say a true long distance relationship is anyone who requires a plane to get to in a reasonable amount of time.
 

Tictac

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Distance is nothing.

Time is everything.

An hour? I live in NYC and have a lot of good people and stuff around me. I know people in CT and NJ that drive an hour to do just about everything.
 

pinkfl

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If you meet the right person, an hour is nothing. I'd happily be in a relationship with someone outside of my town if they are truly compatible with me.

If it's someone I'm not sure about, or I have any doubts, then no. Because then they are no better than the people that I've met in my area thus far, PLUS they live an hour away.
 

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Only if she comes to ME the majority of the time and lives in a place I actually like to visit. Otherwise no.

Spine plates. Stop looking for a soul mate.

While we're on this topic I'd like to point out how pathetic most men's ideal woman really is. When you ask most men what makes a woman "worth it" to make huge sacrificies, spend lots of money and stop f*cking other women... the list of qualities usually boils down to:

- She is hot
- She f*cks me
- She has manners
- She hasn't f*cked 1,000 other men (as for as he knows)
- She likes the stuff I like

When you really think about it.. this is f*cking pathetic. All a woman needs to do to make a man go crazy is be sexually attractive and not treat him like complete garbage? That's it? And he is in love? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I've had too many friends like this. Totally head over heels over a woman because she smiles a lot and doesn't argue. Its gotten to the point where men get excited over common manners.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Greasy Pig

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Be prepared for the "but if I need a hug, you're not there" line in these situations.
 
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