"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Serious Question

denverfan110

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If you thought a girl was worth it, would you ever get into a relationship with her living an hour drive apart (and the potentiality to see each other on the weekends) and full weeks every so often.

This is assuming she's actually worth it. High trust in the relationship. Confident she wont cheat and being with her is sexually and platonically pleasant.

Trying to prove a point to someone.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JoeMarron

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No problem. An hour is nothing. Some people drive further to get to work everyday. I'd say a true long distance relationship is anyone who requires a plane to get to in a reasonable amount of time.
 

Tictac

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Distance is nothing.

Time is everything.

An hour? I live in NYC and have a lot of good people and stuff around me. I know people in CT and NJ that drive an hour to do just about everything.
 

pinkfl

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If you meet the right person, an hour is nothing. I'd happily be in a relationship with someone outside of my town if they are truly compatible with me.

If it's someone I'm not sure about, or I have any doubts, then no. Because then they are no better than the people that I've met in my area thus far, PLUS they live an hour away.
 

PlayHer Man

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Only if she comes to ME the majority of the time and lives in a place I actually like to visit. Otherwise no.

Spine plates. Stop looking for a soul mate.

While we're on this topic I'd like to point out how pathetic most men's ideal woman really is. When you ask most men what makes a woman "worth it" to make huge sacrificies, spend lots of money and stop f*cking other women... the list of qualities usually boils down to:

- She is hot
- She f*cks me
- She has manners
- She hasn't f*cked 1,000 other men (as for as he knows)
- She likes the stuff I like

When you really think about it.. this is f*cking pathetic. All a woman needs to do to make a man go crazy is be sexually attractive and not treat him like complete garbage? That's it? And he is in love? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

I've had too many friends like this. Totally head over heels over a woman because she smiles a lot and doesn't argue. Its gotten to the point where men get excited over common manners.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Greasy Pig

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Be prepared for the "but if I need a hug, you're not there" line in these situations.
 
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