"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Serious advice needed.............

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8ball

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Guys.. I need some serious advice...

I've been dating this woman for 6 months. I love her. She makes me happier than anybody ever has. I know in my bones that if I were to marry her , she would make me very happy.

However..I have a son and an ex-wife. My ex and I didn't really get along that well but I'm thinking that's mainly b/c I was a drunk and a fuk up. I'm past that now. I could probably get along w/ her now.

Here's the dilemma, and it's really messing me up: Do I try ( again ) w/ the ex..to make it work and have a happy family for my son..or do I go w/ the woman that I KNOW would make me happy and have my son grow up in a 'step' household, etc???

I have no idea what to do....???
 

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MR_PERFECT

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If your son is raised in a household where the parents don't love each other, he will know. You never stay married for the kids, that's the worst thing you could do. Your unhappiness will grow through the house like a cancer.

You have to make sure you're over the ex before moving on to the new girl.
 
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I concur.
 
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CLOONEY

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Dont just get back with the X because of your son, and because you THINK it could work because before you were a "drunk and a fuk up"!. If you KNOW the new woman can make you happy, and you are happy with her. Marry her. Quite simple really, dont make this harder for yourself.

Good luck champ. Glad you found the right woman.
 
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If she can love you, this new one, she can love your son, because she will see your face each time she looks at him. If your new household will be happy, and a good place to live. Then it will be a good place for your son. The danger of going back to the ex is going back to your old ways, and you don't want that. Plus you'll be caught wondering what could have been with this woman who has made you happy. Stay the course.

-Grey Fox
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I believe that if you do what is best for you, that is what will be best for your son.
 
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Originally posted by Big Pappy
I believe that if you do what is best for you, that is what will be best for your son.
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I agree
 
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If you're even thinking about leaving the new woman just to be with another one, I dont' think it will work out either way.
 
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