"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Serial Flirter or Highly Interested?

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Ok first off thanks to everyone who will take the time to read this and try to help me with my issue. So here's the low down...I'ma make it real short and sweet.

- New chick moves next door
- I don't notice her
- She starts to make herself noticed
- Looks in my window constantly
- Says hi everytime she sees me whether Im looking at her or not, in order to get my attention
- Very flirty bats eyelashes, waves, speaks, with huge smile
- When I talk to her you can tell she's sorta nervous and aroused at the same time.
- Constantly compliments me
- I called her a cutie and she smiled, giggled, and started to shake and couldn't put keys in her own door.
- It was a good sign because the day after she was still on me.

Sounds good right?

But get this...she has a man! So do you think she could be playing games, looking for a good time, or looking for a boyfriend replacement? The chick is very very mature and doesn't seem to be the type to play games but I'm quite flustered any help would be greatly appreciated.
 

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"So do you think she could be playing games, looking for a good time, or looking for a boyfriend replacement?"

I think she wants you to wonder these exact things... but really though i know you got the right attitude somewhere inside you... the one that says "oh ****... who gives a **** what she is doing or looking for... i gotta just focus on what i want"


Women ruin many lives
I bet her husband is probably more worth knowing than her, even tho he cant keep her satisfied..... hes your neighbor and she ... well she is a dime a dozen right?
 

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girl_in_a_boy_forum said:
Or she's just trying to be friendly. Smile + hello doesn't mean "I want you."
You should read the first post before you respond.
 

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maybe she has some sort of crush on you and is trying to keep it a secret to everyone.
it isnt hurting anyone, and it will pass soon enough .
just say hi as any other neighbor would do and pretend not to notice the crush.
then walk away smiling because someone has a secret crush on you hehe.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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