"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Serial Flirter or Highly Interested?

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Ok first off thanks to everyone who will take the time to read this and try to help me with my issue. So here's the low down...I'ma make it real short and sweet.

- New chick moves next door
- I don't notice her
- She starts to make herself noticed
- Looks in my window constantly
- Says hi everytime she sees me whether Im looking at her or not, in order to get my attention
- Very flirty bats eyelashes, waves, speaks, with huge smile
- When I talk to her you can tell she's sorta nervous and aroused at the same time.
- Constantly compliments me
- I called her a cutie and she smiled, giggled, and started to shake and couldn't put keys in her own door.
- It was a good sign because the day after she was still on me.

Sounds good right?

But get this...she has a man! So do you think she could be playing games, looking for a good time, or looking for a boyfriend replacement? The chick is very very mature and doesn't seem to be the type to play games but I'm quite flustered any help would be greatly appreciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stripes

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"So do you think she could be playing games, looking for a good time, or looking for a boyfriend replacement?"

I think she wants you to wonder these exact things... but really though i know you got the right attitude somewhere inside you... the one that says "oh ****... who gives a **** what she is doing or looking for... i gotta just focus on what i want"


Women ruin many lives
I bet her husband is probably more worth knowing than her, even tho he cant keep her satisfied..... hes your neighbor and she ... well she is a dime a dozen right?
 

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girl_in_a_boy_forum said:
Or she's just trying to be friendly. Smile + hello doesn't mean "I want you."
You should read the first post before you respond.
 

penkitten

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maybe she has some sort of crush on you and is trying to keep it a secret to everyone.
it isnt hurting anyone, and it will pass soon enough .
just say hi as any other neighbor would do and pretend not to notice the crush.
then walk away smiling because someone has a secret crush on you hehe.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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