"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok first off thanks to everyone who will take the time to read this and try to help me with my issue. So here's the low down...I'ma make it real short and sweet.

- New chick moves next door
- I don't notice her
- She starts to make herself noticed
- Looks in my window constantly
- Says hi everytime she sees me whether Im looking at her or not, in order to get my attention
- Very flirty bats eyelashes, waves, speaks, with huge smile
- When I talk to her you can tell she's sorta nervous and aroused at the same time.
- Constantly compliments me
- I called her a cutie and she smiled, giggled, and started to shake and couldn't put keys in her own door.
- It was a good sign because the day after she was still on me.

Sounds good right?

But get this...she has a man! So do you think she could be playing games, looking for a good time, or looking for a boyfriend replacement? The chick is very very mature and doesn't seem to be the type to play games but I'm quite flustered any help would be greatly appreciated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"So do you think she could be playing games, looking for a good time, or looking for a boyfriend replacement?"

I think she wants you to wonder these exact things... but really though i know you got the right attitude somewhere inside you... the one that says "oh ****... who gives a **** what she is doing or looking for... i gotta just focus on what i want"


Women ruin many lives
I bet her husband is probably more worth knowing than her, even tho he cant keep her satisfied..... hes your neighbor and she ... well she is a dime a dozen right?
 
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girl_in_a_boy_forum said:
Or she's just trying to be friendly. Smile + hello doesn't mean "I want you."
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You should read the first post before you respond.
 
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maybe she has some sort of crush on you and is trying to keep it a secret to everyone.
it isnt hurting anyone, and it will pass soon enough .
just say hi as any other neighbor would do and pretend not to notice the crush.
then walk away smiling because someone has a secret crush on you hehe.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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