“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What kind of music do you put on when you're with *HER* in the car, or at home? Any specific albums? Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Craig Davis, Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, anything I like.

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Craig Armstrong - This Love
Etta James - I just want to make love to you

[This message has been edited by Jean Paul (edited 04-14-2002).]
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Enigma is too fvcking played out. It's just as cliched as Barry White and Marvin Gaye.. every numbnut DJ-wannabe uses that crap.

go with the old school as mentioned above..

Kruder/ Dorfmeister
Tosca
Peace Orchestra
Antonio Carlos Jobim
Astrud Gilberto
Ella Fitzgerald
Sam Cooke
some Jamiroquai remixes are good too..

this will set you apart - very cool, sophisticated, and most importantly not cliched or played out.
 

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Heh DIESEL, I see you've got the same taste of music as me.

Nice chillout tracks.
 

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Miles Davis
Alpha
Goldfrapp
 

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Andrea Bocceli!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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nikka costa
remy shan
red house painters
Enrique Iglesias
764-hero
ZeeBee
Portishead
Elbow
Coldplay
Dntel (Experimental)
Future Bible Hero's (not what you think just a name)
Mandalay
morcheeba
modest mouse
Pale saints
pixies
radiohead
 

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Personally, I just listen to my rock music when I'm with girls. I really don't care what they think.

David DeAngelo recommended that I play Hip Hop and Disco when I'm with a girl, though, so I guess it all depends. Sade is very nice.

FW

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No, his mind is not for rent
To any god or government
Always hopeful yet discontent
He knows changes aren't permanent
--Rush "Tom Sawyer"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Miles?

Don't get me wrong, Miles is probally the most incredible musician of the century.

Girls hate him though. I've never met a girl who could listen to Pharaoh's Dance or *****'s Brew.

Maybe his earlier stuff would work. Stay away from the fusion. Sketches of Spain might also be too much for a girl...remember, it has to be real simple for them.
 

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Darling Nikki-Prince


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Got a drum life?

"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
 

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Originally posted by lucien779:
Miles?

Don't get me wrong, Miles is probally the most incredible musician of the century.

Girls hate him though. I've never met a girl who could listen to Pharaoh's Dance or *****'s Brew.

Maybe his earlier stuff would work. Stay away from the fusion. Sketches of Spain might also be too much for a girl...remember, it has to be real simple for them.
heh heh yeah, guess I should've been more specific, like "Filles de Kilimanjaro" or "In a Slient Way" - 2 of my fav Miles discs... Miles did get a little craaaazy soon after that...
 

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damn, I forgot Goldfrapp.. that freak is hot and money.

peace,
D

about the Miles - everything before *****es Brew should be OK - to be totally safe just stick with everything up to and including "Kind of Blue' everything he did with the first great quintet is real money as far as the ladies go.

peace,
D
 

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when Miles Davis screams
Naoko's skin becomes a mean electric
we let it roll on through forty seven minutes of Pharoah's Dance and *****'s Brew
she asked me to buy some acid off my friends
I said there is no need
Miles can suck you and soak you
flutter and funk you

in the morning, her skin is no longer electric, but cool like a captured and bottled breeze
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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