"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Jean Paul
Don Juan
Etta James - I just want to make love to you
[This message has been edited by Jean Paul (edited 04-14-2002).]
Zip Thack
Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
gunslinger
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DIESEL
Master Don Juan
go with the old school as mentioned above..
Kruder/ Dorfmeister
Tosca
Peace Orchestra
Antonio Carlos Jobim
Astrud Gilberto
Ella Fitzgerald
Sam Cooke
some Jamiroquai remixes are good too..
this will set you apart - very cool, sophisticated, and most importantly not cliched or played out.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Spermvader
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Don-Wan Kenobi
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Someone mentioned Miles. How bout' Chet Baker?
DWK
Chunking2399
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remy shan
red house painters
Enrique Iglesias
764-hero
ZeeBee
Portishead
Elbow
Coldplay
Dntel (Experimental)
Future Bible Hero's (not what you think just a name)
Mandalay
morcheeba
modest mouse
Pale saints
pixies
radiohead
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Freewill
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David DeAngelo recommended that I play Hip Hop and Disco when I'm with a girl, though, so I guess it all depends. Sade is very nice.
FW
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No, his mind is not for rent
To any god or government
Always hopeful yet discontent
He knows changes aren't permanent
--Rush "Tom Sawyer"
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Don't get me wrong, Miles is probally the most incredible musician of the century.
Girls hate him though. I've never met a girl who could listen to Pharaoh's Dance or *****'s Brew.
Maybe his earlier stuff would work. Stay away from the fusion. Sketches of Spain might also be too much for a girl...remember, it has to be real simple for them.
TheRockStar
Senior Don Juan
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Got a drum life?
"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
DIESEL
Master Don Juan
peace,
D
about the Miles - everything before *****es Brew should be OK - to be totally safe just stick with everything up to and including "Kind of Blue' everything he did with the first great quintet is real money as far as the ladies go.
peace,
D
Naoko's skin becomes a mean electric
we let it roll on through forty seven minutes of Pharoah's Dance and *****'s Brew
she asked me to buy some acid off my friends
I said there is no need
Miles can suck you and soak you
flutter and funk you
in the morning, her skin is no longer electric, but cool like a captured and bottled breeze
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.