"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey guys,
for quite sometime I have been reading stuffs out here.....but due to my studies I am inable to hang out and make new freinds.....mostly I try approaching women on the streets(especcially on my way to the university)....80% of the time girls seem uninterested in me(I do everything as said here i.e eye-contact,smile,C&F etc.).the other 20% who do talk never end up meeting me and also don't answer my call the first time and generally ask me to call them a day before the date(pretty fickle minded a?)...which ofcourse I don't unless they give me a proper explanation(which has never been given :))). and so I don't call.
Let me give you a brief description of myself.I am a preety good looking guy brown guy studing in Russia.and there are a lot of women who find me attractive,I even have been asked out by a girl once but since we were studing together I chose not to date her.Am 22 yrs and have slept with only 3 women in entire life including prostitute...and with one had sex on the beach on our first date(don't know how :)))
Any advices?.....because I really don't know what the heck is going on out here?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hui said:
hey guys,
for quite sometime I have been reading stuffs out here.....but due to my studies I am inable to hang out and make new freinds.....mostly I try approaching women on the streets(especcially on my way to the university)....80% of the time girls seem uninterested in me(I do everything as said here i.e eye-contact,smile,C&F etc.).the other 20% who do talk never end up meeting me and also don't answer my call the first time and generally ask me to call them a day before the date(pretty fickle minded a?)...which ofcourse I don't unless they give me a proper explanation(which has never been given :))). and so I don't call.
Let me give you a brief description of myself.I am a preety good looking guy brown guy studing in Russia.and there are a lot of women who find me attractive,I even have been asked out by a girl once but since we were studing together I chose not to date her.Am 22 yrs and have slept with only 3 women in entire life including prostitute...and with one had sex on the beach on our first date(don't know how :)))
Any advices?.....because I really don't know what the heck is going on out here?
Improve your looks as much as possible and just keep on practicing. With each approach you get better and better...:up:
 

hui

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squirrels said:
Here's some advices...post in the right forum if you want help.
where should I be posting exactly?
 

hui

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Now again I met this girl on the streets who seemed to show high interest in me but later when I called her up she asked me to call her up a day prior to the date and said NO you call up only incase you won't be able to come....and this morning I got a a SMS from her saying that she won't be able to come since she is going out of town....what the hell.....I mean I have ingrained all stuff out here but how I am gonna use it when I am unable to get a date?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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