"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sense nonsense!

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hey guys,
for quite sometime I have been reading stuffs out here.....but due to my studies I am inable to hang out and make new freinds.....mostly I try approaching women on the streets(especcially on my way to the university)....80% of the time girls seem uninterested in me(I do everything as said here i.e eye-contact,smile,C&F etc.).the other 20% who do talk never end up meeting me and also don't answer my call the first time and generally ask me to call them a day before the date(pretty fickle minded a?)...which ofcourse I don't unless they give me a proper explanation(which has never been given :))). and so I don't call.
Let me give you a brief description of myself.I am a preety good looking guy brown guy studing in Russia.and there are a lot of women who find me attractive,I even have been asked out by a girl once but since we were studing together I chose not to date her.Am 22 yrs and have slept with only 3 women in entire life including prostitute...and with one had sex on the beach on our first date(don't know how :)))
Any advices?.....because I really don't know what the heck is going on out here?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hui said:
hey guys,
for quite sometime I have been reading stuffs out here.....but due to my studies I am inable to hang out and make new freinds.....mostly I try approaching women on the streets(especcially on my way to the university)....80% of the time girls seem uninterested in me(I do everything as said here i.e eye-contact,smile,C&F etc.).the other 20% who do talk never end up meeting me and also don't answer my call the first time and generally ask me to call them a day before the date(pretty fickle minded a?)...which ofcourse I don't unless they give me a proper explanation(which has never been given :))). and so I don't call.
Let me give you a brief description of myself.I am a preety good looking guy brown guy studing in Russia.and there are a lot of women who find me attractive,I even have been asked out by a girl once but since we were studing together I chose not to date her.Am 22 yrs and have slept with only 3 women in entire life including prostitute...and with one had sex on the beach on our first date(don't know how :)))
Any advices?.....because I really don't know what the heck is going on out here?
Improve your looks as much as possible and just keep on practicing. With each approach you get better and better...:up:
 

hui

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squirrels said:
Here's some advices...post in the right forum if you want help.
where should I be posting exactly?
 

hui

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Now again I met this girl on the streets who seemed to show high interest in me but later when I called her up she asked me to call her up a day prior to the date and said NO you call up only incase you won't be able to come....and this morning I got a a SMS from her saying that she won't be able to come since she is going out of town....what the hell.....I mean I have ingrained all stuff out here but how I am gonna use it when I am unable to get a date?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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