"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey guys,
for quite sometime I have been reading stuffs out here.....but due to my studies I am inable to hang out and make new freinds.....mostly I try approaching women on the streets(especcially on my way to the university)....80% of the time girls seem uninterested in me(I do everything as said here i.e eye-contact,smile,C&F etc.).the other 20% who do talk never end up meeting me and also don't answer my call the first time and generally ask me to call them a day before the date(pretty fickle minded a?)...which ofcourse I don't unless they give me a proper explanation(which has never been given :))). and so I don't call.
Let me give you a brief description of myself.I am a preety good looking guy brown guy studing in Russia.and there are a lot of women who find me attractive,I even have been asked out by a girl once but since we were studing together I chose not to date her.Am 22 yrs and have slept with only 3 women in entire life including prostitute...and with one had sex on the beach on our first date(don't know how :)))
Any advices?.....because I really don't know what the heck is going on out here?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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hui said:
hey guys,
for quite sometime I have been reading stuffs out here.....but due to my studies I am inable to hang out and make new freinds.....mostly I try approaching women on the streets(especcially on my way to the university)....80% of the time girls seem uninterested in me(I do everything as said here i.e eye-contact,smile,C&F etc.).the other 20% who do talk never end up meeting me and also don't answer my call the first time and generally ask me to call them a day before the date(pretty fickle minded a?)...which ofcourse I don't unless they give me a proper explanation(which has never been given :))). and so I don't call.
Let me give you a brief description of myself.I am a preety good looking guy brown guy studing in Russia.and there are a lot of women who find me attractive,I even have been asked out by a girl once but since we were studing together I chose not to date her.Am 22 yrs and have slept with only 3 women in entire life including prostitute...and with one had sex on the beach on our first date(don't know how :)))
Any advices?.....because I really don't know what the heck is going on out here?
Improve your looks as much as possible and just keep on practicing. With each approach you get better and better...:up:
 

hui

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squirrels said:
Here's some advices...post in the right forum if you want help.
where should I be posting exactly?
 

hui

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Now again I met this girl on the streets who seemed to show high interest in me but later when I called her up she asked me to call her up a day prior to the date and said NO you call up only incase you won't be able to come....and this morning I got a a SMS from her saying that she won't be able to come since she is going out of town....what the hell.....I mean I have ingrained all stuff out here but how I am gonna use it when I am unable to get a date?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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